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  1. May be calling it quits tonight- need advice- MLK day :(

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    If you are reading this and can offer some insight I would greatly appreciate it. I found this site from an article about the effect divorce has on kids. I am just about to tell my wife I can't hang in there for the kids any longer (tonight) Long story short: Me- 43/to her 40y/o Typical...
  2. I have recently separated and it feels strange

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married for over 22 years and recently became estranged from my wife. I have two daughters, the oldest is living with me, she is over 18, and the youngest, 15, we are sharing. Once my wife moved out, the fighting stopped and we are doing our best to get along for our youngest child...
  3. Starting to consider a separation and need advice

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm 37 and me and my husband have been married for 3 years and were living together for 4 years before we got married. We have a beautiful 3 year old daughter. We used to have a lovely relationship and be really friends and caring for each other. Then when my daughter was born 3 years ago we...
  4. Should I speak to an attorney before I leave?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I recently met with a financial advisor who advised me that if I want to be independent I should leave my home. I have been married for 24 years and have two grown children. My husband has been lying about our finances the whole time, has gotten us into serious debt, has had his family bail...
  5. Reconciliation after separation? Is it possible?

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    Hi. I'm relatively new to the forum but my husband and I have been struggling for quite some time. We have been in therapy since April, both together and separately. We have two boys, age 10 & 11. We have been married for over 18 years. We have had a lot of ups and downs in terms of...
  6. Lost and confused :(

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    OK so im new and not sure what this will do for me but hopefully help. ive been with my husband for 3 years and at the beginning as always i felt so loved and cared for. we don't have kids together but each have one of our own. his doesn't live with us. as time went on i began to see that he...
  7. Forever in limbo

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am stuck in limbo and confused about what to do. We were best friends growing up and we've been together on and off for 11 years. I took 2 years off when I started university and dated some nice girls but always broke it off with them to see her. She never went on a single date her entire life...
  8. Need Advise, Im so confused!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I first want to say thank you for looking &/or giving me words of wisdom! We have been married for 5 years. I have been unhappy in my marriage for several years, now I have asked for a separation, in hopes to save our marriage. I guess the best way to start is at the beginning, I wanted...
  9. Should I leave my Husband?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    We have been married for 10 years and have 3 beautiful children all three under 11. I work an 8-5 and he's been unemployed for almost a year. Since he's home he's the primary caretaker for our 3 children, cooks, and combined with my children I generally come home to a pretty clean house and...