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Some background: I 28M and my wife 25F have been married for five years. We have three children, ages 5, 3, and 2. I will readily admit I really am the problem here. I grew up in an extremely toxic household with a narcissistic physically abusive stepfather and an enabling mother. Growing up I...

So I am only been married three years. The relationship was a couple years before the engagement and then we got married quick. There were lot of good things about our relationship and a lot of bad things about our relationship, but in the end, the last year was full of petty arguments, overall...

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Hey everyone, I was just needing a little bit of advice about my marriage. My husband and I have been married only a year and 4 months now. At first things were good and then they turned sour and I've started realizing some things about him. He drinks too much, talks about doing drugs and...

Hi to all, while reading the forum I realized I am not the only one going through this! What is wrong with our partners that after so long in a relationship decide to drift apart? This is nonsense. My story is that after 18 years of having a normal marriage, my husband tells me one day that...

Hello, I want to tell my story because honestly I need to get it out, I have no true confidants and I’m not so good holding this type of emotion and I know that I will be called stupid and many will tell me that I should expect it but please believe me; I didn’t not know I will be this way, I...

Hi Everyone, I'm not really sure what's important for people to know to help me out. Some background: My husband and I are both 25. We've been married 4 years, but we've been together 5-6 years. Both of us suffer from mental illness and attachment issues from childhood trauma. We see the same...

Long time watcher, first time post. We are still married. 7 Years. Together for 10. Separated in June 2016. Went through 7 years of infertility, many surgeries and procedures. SO said he could live with or without kids. He started dating current GF in November. She was pregnant by January. She...

I have made many errors in my marriage. Many of them due to insecurities carefully masqueraded behind a false face of confidence. I failed at many stages, at many things. The past always catches up with you. Learned that late in life and when I least expected such thing to happen. As I carefully...

I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, I'm just trying to seek out some insight from anyone who may have some. Also I apologize for the wall of text. It turned into many more words than I was intending, but details might make it easier to provide insight. Background: My wife and...

Hi everyone I am new here. Not really sure where to start but I really need people to talk to because I feel so alone. I started dating my husband when I was 19. We moved in together a year later and then another five years later we decided to get married despite the fact that I wanted children...

Hi. I have been separated from my husband of 21 years for 4 days. We were together 6 years prior to marriage and have three great kids. Our relationship has always been one of mutual respect, love and understanding. However, I was diagnosed with cancer (advanced stage) 2.5 years ago. Everything...

Hi Folks, I've been married for ten years and have two kids, I've been separated for a year and I don’t know what to do with my marriage. My wife is a wonderful woman that I’ve known for last fifteen years. She is kind and caring, very beautiful as well. When we married I was young we agreed...

Hi, My husband just moved to an apartment and I am staying in the house with my 16 year old son. Husband moved primary items, but we have a house full of "things" which he still uses, i.e. tools in garage. He said he would like to come over on Saturday's and just "hang out". He said this way he...

My husband, I believe, is in a depression. He is 27 and I am 24. We have been together for nearly 6 years and married for 6 months. Over the last month he became increasingly distant. He stopped sleeping in the bed, stopped kissing me, stopped asking me for rides to and from work (we have one...

My wife and I made some pretty bad mistakes resulting in a separation (she is the one that wanted originally to leave) but after a grueling couple of months, she decided to contact 3 Rivers Mental Health Solutions in order to get in touch with her previous case manager asking if we could talk...

Hello, I have been married for 4 years and just discovered yesterday that I am pregnant. I should be overjoyed as my husband and I had been TTC since we were married in 2009. We already have a 7 year old and were desperate for a sibling with no luck. Although, unfortunately my husband and I have...

Hi all, I’m brand new here and to this sort of group in general. I really need some support and advice, I didn’t know if I should create a new thread or what. My wife and I (31 and 30 years old) have been together for about 6 years, 4+ years dating and 18 months of marriage. She is from out...

My wife and I live in two different cities Reunion weekend only Weekend reunion very intimate passion Usually at night only through the telephone exchange How to make the usual night phone conversations more interesting yet.