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  1. New: Marriage falling apart

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey everyone, I was just needing a little bit of advice about my marriage. My husband and I have been married only a year and 4 months now. At first things were good and then they turned sour and I've started realizing some things about him. He drinks too much, talks about doing drugs and...
  2. Crazy Separation

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi to all, while reading the forum I realized I am not the only one going through this! What is wrong with our partners that after so long in a relationship decide to drift apart? This is nonsense. My story is that after 18 years of having a normal marriage, my husband tells me one day that...
  3. I know the truth but it hurts all the same

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I want to tell my story because honestly I need to get it out, I have no true confidants and I’m not so good holding this type of emotion and I know that I will be called stupid and many will tell me that I should expect it but please believe me; I didn’t not know I will be this way, I...
  4. One Step Forward, Two Steps Back

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi Everyone, I'm not really sure what's important for people to know to help me out. Some background: My husband and I are both 25. We've been married 4 years, but we've been together 5-6 years. Both of us suffer from mental illness and attachment issues from childhood trauma. We see the same...
  5. We're Both Pregnant.

    Coping with Infidelity
    Long time watcher, first time post. We are still married. 7 Years. Together for 10. Separated in June 2016. Went through 7 years of infertility, many surgeries and procedures. SO said he could live with or without kids. He started dating current GF in November. She was pregnant by January. She...
  6. I threw it away

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I have made many errors in my marriage. Many of them due to insecurities carefully masqueraded behind a false face of confidence. I failed at many stages, at many things. The past always catches up with you. Learned that late in life and when I least expected such thing to happen. As I carefully...
  7. Recently separated, seeking insight.

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, I'm just trying to seek out some insight from anyone who may have some. Also I apologize for the wall of text. It turned into many more words than I was intending, but details might make it easier to provide insight. Background: My wife and...
  8. Need encouragement / advice

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone I am new here. Not really sure where to start but I really need people to talk to because I feel so alone. I started dating my husband when I was 19. We moved in together a year later and then another five years later we decided to get married despite the fact that I wanted children...
  9. Recently Separated

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi. I have been separated from my husband of 21 years for 4 days. We were together 6 years prior to marriage and have three great kids. Our relationship has always been one of mutual respect, love and understanding. However, I was diagnosed with cancer (advanced stage) 2.5 years ago. Everything...
  10. I am separated and I don’t know what to do with my marriage.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi Folks, I've been married for ten years and have two kids, I've been separated for a year and I don’t know what to do with my marriage. My wife is a wonderful woman that I’ve known for last fifteen years. She is kind and caring, very beautiful as well. When we married I was young we agreed...
  11. Need advice- new separation

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, My husband just moved to an apartment and I am staying in the house with my 16 year old son. Husband moved primary items, but we have a house full of "things" which he still uses, i.e. tools in garage. He said he would like to come over on Saturday's and just "hang out". He said this way he...
  12. How can I win my unwilling husband back?

    Reconciliation
    My husband, I believe, is in a depression. He is 27 and I am 24. We have been together for nearly 6 years and married for 6 months. Over the last month he became increasingly distant. He stopped sleeping in the bed, stopped kissing me, stopped asking me for rides to and from work (we have one...
  13. We Need Serious Help with this problem!

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My wife and I made some pretty bad mistakes resulting in a separation (she is the one that wanted originally to leave) but after a grueling couple of months, she decided to contact 3 Rivers Mental Health Solutions in order to get in touch with her previous case manager asking if we could talk...
  14. Separated and Pregnant... Need Advice PLEASE!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I have been married for 4 years and just discovered yesterday that I am pregnant. I should be overjoyed as my husband and I had been TTC since we were married in 2009. We already have a 7 year old and were desperate for a sibling with no luck. Although, unfortunately my husband and I have...
  15. Newly Seperated but hopeful

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi all, I’m brand new here and to this sort of group in general. I really need some support and advice, I didn’t know if I should create a new thread or what. My wife and I (31 and 30 years old) have been together for about 6 years, 4+ years dating and 18 months of marriage. She is from out...
  16. How to solve the couple separated sexual problems

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife and I live in two different cities Reunion weekend only Weekend reunion very intimate passion Usually at night only through the telephone exchange How to make the usual night phone conversations more interesting yet.
  17. Mixed signals from my separated wife

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    So my wife left me back on February 20th ish, she said she was done and was not going to take this treatment from me anymore. We had kind of a weird argument the night before, and have been bickering a lot lately with each other for the past 6-8 months, but this news completely floored me. I...
  18. HELP! Husband Moved Out Suddenly. Sexuality questions?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    HISTORY: Married 15 1/2 yrs; together 7 yrs prior. 1 (adult) child only, who's lived away since starting college 8 1/2 yrs ago. BACKGROUND & INTIMACY 1)-MANY common interests & LOTS of great fun up through 02/'13. 2)-Obviously very good, frequent, & mutually satisfying sex 'till 1-2 yrs ago...
  19. Actions of my separated wife.

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    So my wife and I separated about a month ago. We're both young, 26, and have been married 4 years in May and together since 19. Lately we have grown apart because of a multitude of reasons. My wife lives at our house and has one friend she hangs out with quite a bit. After the first two...
  20. Not giving up, but getting tired.

    Relationships and Spirituality
    I'm trying hard to build a better relationship with God and have faith. My only wife of 27 years left 10 months ago. We have 3 fine teenagers. She had tried to leave months prior, but stayed after a long talk and really let her know I love her. I didn't beg or plead then, but tried to...
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