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  1. Why am I not enough?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My Husband and I have been together over 25 years. Just before 18 years together we split for 6 months, but we’re able to work out our relationship. In June of 2019 we got married. In Feb 2020 I left my job and our relationship almost immediately went South. All of this happening during...
  2. New: Marriage falling apart

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey everyone, I was just needing a little bit of advice about my marriage. My husband and I have been married only a year and 4 months now. At first things were good and then they turned sour and I've started realizing some things about him. He drinks too much, talks about doing drugs and...
  3. How am I supposed to feel??

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Ok. I am new here and this will be long but I really need some advice. My husband and I have been married for 3 years (married 2015). We had a stupid argument over scrambled eggs that snowballed into him wanting a physical seperation. The argument started because he made scrambled eggs for...
  4. I threw it away

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I have made many errors in my marriage. Many of them due to insecurities carefully masqueraded behind a false face of confidence. I failed at many stages, at many things. The past always catches up with you. Learned that late in life and when I least expected such thing to happen. As I carefully...
  5. In the middle of a separation

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I just don't know what to think. She comes over two days ago and gives me a hug followed by the most intense kissing we've ever had. Then she left. Yesterday she came over a half hour before I needed to leave for work and did the same thing to me followed by the most intense sex we have ever...
  6. What am I doing wrong???

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My wife of 7 years left me on November 10th over an email she mistook as me trying to have an affair. This was the furthest thing from my mind. I believe she knows this now, however we haven't communicated since Monday the 26th. She asked me for time and to give her space, which I've complied...
  7. Newly Separated and need help in moving on

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am newly separated < 3 weeks. A little about what led it it.... Over the last two years my wife has had several emotional and physical affairs. Allot of lying on her part and ups and downs in our marriage. In Sept I had a one time affair myself. 2 weeks ago during a time i though we were...
  8. Hurting, please help

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband just got back from vacation with his family and we have decided to move into our own places. He is staying in a hotel and doesn't really want to speak to me. He says I am too needy, but I am dying to understand what his intentions are. We start marriage counselling on Tuesday and he...