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  1. Wife wants divorce/separation

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Me and my wife have been together for almost ten year married for one. I was not the best partner. I held a lot in my chest for a long time, perceived wrongs I thought had been done to me. I had a blow up one day and the next day she went to her sister's and when she was supposed to come home I...
  2. Tomorrow.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm sitting here getting wine-drunk dreading tomorrow. I have to tell my husband I don't love him anymore. We got married pretty quickly, like a few months into knowing each other. I know, I'm stupid. He was a stand-up guy when we got together. Optimistic, had huge goals he was working on, had...
  3. Wife smokes Pot... Now

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'll Start with a little background... We're a late-mid 20's couple been married 5 years. Known each other since high school. She smoked pot before we were together but only occasionally (once or twice a year some years not at all) ever since. I was the same way, before we were together I smoked...
  4. No communication, need advise

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Sorry, new here so long post. I am one week into an unexpected and sudden separation and my wife has dropped all communication. I'm kind of lost and could use some advice. We have been married for nearly ten years and our marriage has really been good. We don't fight or argue and everyone...
  5. I think separation is the next step.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    H and I have been together for 5 years, married for almost 4 years. A few mnths before we got married, I found a huge porn stash along with nude pictures of past lovers/girlfriends. I confronted him about it and he promised to delete everything and that it wouldn't happen again. (Back story, my...
  6. Wife want's to be friends after 17 yrs of marriage.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    We are both religious people and after 17 years of marriage she told me last night that is is over and she only wants to be friends because we have two boys 13 and 11. She is taking nursing and I know is stressed. She has told me I don't get her and don't understand her and I can agree on most...
  7. 17 years of marriage and now she says it's over.

    Relationships and Spirituality
    We are both religious people and after 17 years of marriage she told me last night that is is over and she only wants to be friends because we have two boys 13 and 11. She is taking nursing and I know is stressed. She has told me I don't get her and don't understand her and I can agree on most...
  8. I want him back! Please help!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I've been with my husband for 10yrs, 4 married. We have 2 dogs and no kids. I was being told our relationship was over all of a sudden 3 months ago. And we've been separated for 2 months. I made mistakes like begging, promising, yelling etc. I moved to my parents while he and the dogs stay. I...
  9. adultery during separation

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello all, I would like to preface this by saying that I am also seeking professional help regularly. Just would like some additional feedback. My wife and I separated, seemingly, out of nowhere. We have been married for 3 years and have a (at the time) just turned 1 year old son. Wife came to...
  10. Lost...marriage. Can it be found?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am new to this, so please bear with me as I fumble through the process... I have been in a faithful relationship for 17 1/2 years with my 15 year anniversary nearing. I love my husband. He is a good man. However, like so many others, that doesn't always tell it all. He is now nothing more than...
  11. Long Distance Marriage... just starting... just got married.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello~ I am not sure which kind of advice I can get about this, but I wanted to give it a try. We got married last January, after living together for about 3 years. I am finishing my post graduate studies hopefully next April and the deal before was that I would find a job and he would follow...
  12. Wife wants to move, not sure I want to

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I have been married 1.5 years, and we moved to CA from ID. I have three kids, two live 20 minutes away and are 12 and 16. She has two kids, one 18 in ID and the other 25 in KY. She has a full-time job locally, and my ex-wife where the kids spend a lot of time during the week for...
  13. On my last leg.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm at a point, that I really don't know what to do. I've posted two other pieces of my story in CWI. Long story short, I cheated on my husband, while we were separated for five months due to a change in station in the Military. I am enlisted, he is not. He moved in with me the first of January...
  14. Just married, want a separation?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Here is the history so far... I have been married for over 4 months. I was with my husband for 12 years before we got married. Throughout this time we have been living/working in 2 different places. We have visited each other every weekend/other weekend for 8 years and have never lived together...
  15. Need a new perspective!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hey guys...I just need a new perspective on this situation. Okay, I am 23 years old. I've been married to someone I consider my best friend since I was 19. When we got married, in a nutshell, it was because we loved each other, but also because it was convenient. Well, for me anyhow. When we...
  16. No idea what to do! Please help!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi all, I'm new here and desperate for advice or even just someone who can relate. Brief intro- I'm 34, DH is 35- married 8 and a half years. I was very young (19) when we met and have not had that much experience with relationships/men other than with him. We have no kids but I desperately...
  17. His silent terror.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    First I have known my husband for 4 1/2 years now. We have been married for 3 years. Have a beautiful 2 year old daughter who is wonderful. We never really talked about any kind of problems that we had, if we faught we wouldn't speak, than sleep on it and act like nothing happend. Well two...
  18. Why separate? I don't understand. Help!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My fiance and I have been together for 5 1/2 years. We've lived together since 3 months after we met. Everything seemed good on my end and I was very happy until we moved back to her home town. 2 months later she tells me that 1. She loves me. 2. She still wants to date me and be a couple. 3...
  19. Crossroads......

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone, I am new here. I need some honest, unbiased advice. I feel like love blurs my judgement and common sense in my relationship with my wife. Here is our story: We have been married for a year and half and dated for a year before we became married. Our relationship was...
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