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  1. Need Perspective

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married to my college sweetheart for 11 years and we have 4 young children (in elementary school). I am fortunate enough to be a stay-at-home mom. My husband's job is very stressful and he has always needed a hobby outside of work to occupy his mind and de-stress. I totally...
  2. From selfish sex to no sex (and issues of attraction)

    Sex in Marriage
    I've posted before about my marital issues. Unfortunately little, if anything has changed. We are still in counseling 1x per month. We are as distant emotionally as we have ever been. Sex is complicated. Does he want sex? It seems so, since he complained of not getting it often enough the last...
  3. Need Advise, Im so confused!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I first want to say thank you for looking &/or giving me words of wisdom! We have been married for 5 years. I have been unhappy in my marriage for several years, now I have asked for a separation, in hopes to save our marriage. I guess the best way to start is at the beginning, I wanted...
  4. Service Towards Spouse

    General Relationship Discussion
    I cannot tell you how important it is for husbands and wives to regularly put their needs aside and focus on serving their spouse in one way or another. Marriage is about giving of yourself and supporting your spouse. The bond that occurs when two selfless people are giving of themselves and...
  5. Any insight would be appreciated....

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am a 30 year old female and I have been married to my high school sweetheart for 7 years. We have been together for 15 years, though. We have two daughters, ages 6 and 2. We have had our share of problems for many years. When its good its really good, but when its bad, its really really...
  6. getting it all wrong

    Relationships and Spirituality
    too often as i read n write here on TAM, i see.... words/phrases like "u deserve to be happy" "he/shes cheating" "i let her/him explore OM/OW..." "i'm not happy..." "i cant live w/out my W/H" "does sex texting constitute cheating via EA or PA for the 45th time?" and yada yada.......wah wah...
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