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  1. Wondering...Am I Selfish?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
  2. Not Even Sure How To Put This

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have not found any story quite like mine yet so i would like to share with you all and see what feedback I get. On Jan 13th of this year my wife of 11 years admitted to having an affair. Here’s the thing it was 8 years ago, and according to her lasted 8-9 months. It was a work affair. One...
  3. I want a BJ = me being selfish

    Sex in Marriage
    You guys know the story because it's written all over these forums. Prior to getting married, GF gave BJs. First few years of marriage, wife gave BJs. Now the word BJ in my house means that I am just being selfish. I've been married for ten years and have three kids. My wife does not work...
  4. Am I Being Selfish? Need some advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi I'm a 31 yo female. I've been dating my bf for 9 months, and we're on the verge of breaking up. I'm trying to figure out if he is being unreasonable and selfish or if maybe its me! The largest problem is lack of time and inability to keep plans with me has always been a problem. Today it...
  5. Living with father in law to be is causing problems

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    Hi all, I have been in a relationship with my partner for over 3.5 years. We got engaged at the end of last year, and are getting married next year. We both have good jobs with good incomes. My partners father has been living with us for the last one year. He works in a fly-in fly-out job so he...
  6. Need honest advise, no matter the hurt

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I am a 29 year old who has just now allowed myself to start the process of fixing my biggest flaw. I have commited to going to a 12 step group called Celebrate Recovery, because i have been directed there by our MC. I am truly commited for the first time in 5 years to stop the cycle of pain in...
  7. He wants it all

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    Hello, I'm new to the site and really needing some solid advice. My husband and I got married on August 4, 2012... we lived together for a year before the marriage. I knew he didn't have alot going for him when we got together. No job, no car, a condo he was barely making the payments on and...
  8. Wife has no sex drive and is selfish in the bedroom

    Sex in Marriage
    Ok I'm new here so first off hello and thank you for any and all advice. Ok, I have been married now for 4 years and have been with my wife for almost 12. We used to have a very normal sex life, nothing crazy but 2 maybe 3 time per week and I was completely satisfied with that. But since the...
  9. wife who is selfish in bed

    Sex in Marriage
    I really don't know how else to explain things with out just saying them so fair warning its about to get graphic. So me and my wife have had our fair share of problems but nothing to major, but this has really started to get to me over the few years we have been marred. she is horribly...
  10. Need some perspective on situation

    General Relationship Discussion
    I need some help getting some objective views from people who don't know me or my wife. My wife and I just got married about 6 months ago. We are both 25 (she's 6 months older) but we are both at totally different places in our lives. She works full time as a professional and is on her last...
  11. Looking for advise, Im so confused!

    General Relationship Discussion
    I first want to say thank you for looking &/or giving me words of wisdom! We have been married for 5 years. I have been unhappy in my marriage for several years, now I have asked for a separation, in hopes to save our marriage. I guess the best way to start is at the beginning, I wanted...
  12. Communication issue - My b*itch sessions

    General Relationship Discussion
    A lot of my behavior throughout my life has been boundary-pushing and I have not really suffered a lot of consequence for it. Now, as someone trying to be in an adult relationship, I find it difficult to not expect my man to put up with bad behavior. I want him to just take it when I am a b***h...
  13. Husband doesn't want any kids... what do I do?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi All, My story goes like this: My husband and I met not long after his divorce. At the time we were still young and crazy and the last thing on our minds was having kids and being tied down. A few months before we got engaged he had a vasectomy because he had decided not to have anymore...
  14. Why do I feel like it's all my fault when it isn't

    The Ladies' Lounge
    My exhusband is the whole problem of the marriage from the begining. Well from the start he had been verbally abusive. But he was all I had as far as support for living. I was 16 and he was 23, I had separated from him last year. It was September 8, 2009 when I left him. My husband had alway's...
  15. Support or just being selfish

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married for close to 4 years now, and in the beginning we would work out, exercise and do things together often. I loved that about her, that I have someone to work out with. I'm not a body builder, but like to do cardio and some weights to prevent from getting fat. For the past...