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  1. I made a mistake

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for 6 months, and we dated for 6 years before we got married. We have always been 100% faithful and honest with each other and he is my best friend. I want to give a little background but please know that I am not making excuses for anything I've done. For the...
  2. Trying to hang in but at breaking point...

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi everyone...thanks in advance for listening and any guidance. I feel so alone and isolated with all that is going on that I feel I am breaking in half. I met my husband in 2007 at a party and he called me the very next day to ask me out for dinner. I wasn't instantly attracted to him but we...
  3. porn and relationships -- Do you hide it?

    Sex in Marriage
    I have been watching porn flix since I was 19 (18 years) pretty regularly when I am in relationships and between relationships. I probably watch porn 2-3 times a week to get off, sometimes a little more if I'm not having sex. My question has to do with disclosure. I've never told a single gf...
  4. So lost and confused.....

    General Relationship Discussion
    Well I want to start by telling the story then asking the question so everyone gets the full effect. My husband started being really mean and just standoffish this year he normally works Fridays and Saturdays until 11-12 so he was leaving work and going to the bar on these nights as well as...
  5. Secretly Videotaped

    Sex in Marriage
    First off, my husband and I have been together for about 8 years and have two kids. About a year ago I suspected he was secretly videotaping me because I found a hidden camera/thumb drive in our home. He claimed he found the thing at work- and treated me like I was crazy. He even got offended...
  6. Trust, openness and privacy in a relationship

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been seeing various discussions and threads on here about trust in relationships and checking on a spouse's email or other online activity. Two questions: 1. How many of you share with your significant other what you write on the TAM site or even let your spouse know you are a member of...
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