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  1. She's not a cheater...just won't be transparent?

    Coping with Infidelity
    August 2014, my wife told me this recent ex-coworker had called her and asked her out to a "late lunch" around 2pm so they could have drinks after eating (off the clock at 3pm). I asked her, "Alone?" and she said yes. I told her I was uncomfortable with her going drinking with another guy alone...
  2. Confused, Feeling Hopeless

    Relationships and Addiction
    Hi everyone. I am new here. Thanks for letting me join and post. I hope I can figure out my marriage. I have been married, happily, for 20 years. Husband recently laid off work; I am disabled and receive SSI. We moved to a new city in search of better job opportunities but so far nothing has...
  3. I'm the secret spender who's been lying

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    So I read quite a few threads about the person in the opposite position of me. The one who has been doing the spending and lying and keeping secrets. My story is not quite as severe as the other threads, but I dont think that the amount lied about makes any difference. It's all the same. A lie...
  4. Should wife's male best friends be OK? Can I get her to stop being sneaky about them?

    Coping with Infidelity
    8 years ago I caught my wife lying about a secret lunch with a man who was an occasional co-worker. She said they had become good friends while talking for hours at a business conference. I demanded that she stop lying to me “or else”. Hey, a lunch and male friends are no big deal to me, as...