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  1. Resentment ruining marriage

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am Paul, 37 year old from Toronto originally from India. New to this website and any kind of therapy/help request. My marriage is not going great despite both of us trying from last 5 years. We met about 6 years ago and hit off instantly. We had a great rapport and loved each other's company...
  2. Need help with resentment.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone. I've looked at these forums for a minute and thought I would see if I could get some feedback on my personal situation. Any and all responses are appreciated, and I promise to be respectful in any response I give. So been married for 19 years. When we married, my wife had sons...
  3. Intimacy and Resentment

    Sex in Marriage
    Hello all, maybe you can give me some insight on this issue. I've been dealing with this on my own for a while. First, a little context: I'm a married dude. Wife and I have been together for 6 years, and married for 2 years. We have a powerful relationship, mutually supportive, lots of care...
  4. Feeling alone and looking for support, guidance, advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    I haven't been on this forum in over 2 years, but I returned today out of desperation. H and I are very much in love but due to a series of very stressful outside factors (court battle(s) with H's ex, differences of opinion in child rearing, and dealing with parental alienation issues with my...
  5. How do I get over it?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Last year I had cancer, I think my husband was in denial.. I really don't think my husband could deal with the fact that i was really sick..But why is this? I'm in remission and still being taken to every appointment by my parents..Im slightly annoyed.. I understand he hates crowds..or has an...
  6. Wife said she is disappointed with our lives

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, My wife and I are in our mid-forties. We have three children and we have been together for 20 years, married 16. 15 years ago we were forced to move from my home country and moved to the UK, where my wife is from originally. I had a well-paid job as a Business Development Manager for a...
  7. I feel like giving up on us

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been with my common law husband for 5 years. We have 2 small children. I have 3 teenagers from a previous marriage and he has 1 from a previous relationship. My husband is currently in a rehab facility for alcoholism 1500 miles away. We have had some severe issues come up and they kept...
  8. I feel like I'm waiting on a miracle that will never happen

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    I have been married for two years and we dated an additional two years. In June my husband lost his job due to him flying off the handles when his boss criticized him for calling out from work and then asking to come and pick up his paycheck. Instead of just picking up his check the following...
  9. really sad . should i stay or should i go?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    h ithere im newlywed and i love my husband , but the way that he treats me sometimes i cant take it anymore... He calls me names when he gets angry and he just doesnt really respect me, hes controlling and only thinks of himself sometimes, Dont get me wrong there are alot of great times but i...
  10. Resenting lack of affection from my wife :(

    General Relationship Discussion
    Apologies if this ends up in a rant..... My wife and I have been married for twelve years and I consider myself a good husband. I work hard to provide for my family, I keep myself in shape, I do my share of housework (in fact, I'm the tidy one), I support my wife's choices in her career and...
  11. I've given up

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am an at home mother of two beautiful girls, i clean, cook, do homework & school projects. I'm the one who takes them to their Dr.s Appointments, school functions and have gone to their every progress meeting with teachers and staff in regards to their progress. I cook, clean and everything...
  12. His sex drive is lower

    Sex in Marriage
    Through research I see that I am not alone on the issue of being a wife with a higher sex drive than her husband. We are trying to work through this issue and thus far have made less progress than I had hoped for considering the years we've been working on it. I've run through emotions of...
  13. Husband not good enough?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hello everyone, I am in an arranged marriage, which essentially means I did not really know the kind of guy my husband is before we got married. I have lived with him now for a year and over time our sex life has gone from bad to worse (I was initially hoping he would learn to recognize my...
  14. Help!!!!

    Sex in Marriage
    Ok, a lil background: I've been married for 8yrs, together for 9. He was 27, I was 21 when we met.... I work full time at a job that is not physically taxing (but emotionally ruinous) and he is a full time dad to our 5yo son. I don't want to have sex anymore. WHO HAS TIME???? I work 7p-7a...
  15. Young and looking for blunt answers.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Well... I saw a very similar thread to the one I am going to post... but it was in 2010; figured I would start a new discussion. I am 21, yes indeed quite young to be married, I started dating my husband at the ripe age of 16; we have been together 5 years and married for just over 1 year. I...
  16. what about the kids?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    This week my wife told me she that she doesn't want to work on our relationship any more, and wants to negotiate a separation. I am blindsided and shocked; while I completely agree with her that we both have plenty of needs that the relationship has not met, I never thought we were anywhere...
  17. Building Resentment

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I resent my husband because I feel like I have more responsibility than him and because he refuses to massage my back, no matter how bad I say it hurts. I know, sounds weird in a sentence but my resentment is building. I guess the back massage is a superficial anger in response to my deeper rage...
  18. Sexless, cheating, possible divorce

    Sex in Marriage
    I have been with my husband since I was 16. Our sex life was crazy...oversexed, really. After a few years I started feeling bad about sex and would reject him all the time. Since I am catholic and I felt maybe this was part of my issue (premarital sex) we decided not to have sex until after we...
  19. Husband depressed again

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    Hi everybody- I will try to make this as positive and short as possible. So, my husband and I have our problems- fight alot. But, he was diagnosed with depression last September. He tol me before w were married that he hadderession and had experienced bouts in highschool and college. Anyways...
  20. His Resentment & My Guilt-please help

    Coping with Infidelity
    I need some input and assistance, most likely from all you Loyal Husbands, but I welcome all who can be of help, regarding my husband's anger and resentment. He wants me to do something about it so that it can go away. Here's our background: Dated four tumultuous years, got pregnant (me at...
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