regaining trust

I'm new here and would like to have some advice as the offending party, if possible. Some background: My wife and I have been married just short of five years, no kids. We have had a good marriage except for the sex department. It was good at first, but over time, things waned until there was...

Let me start out this novel here. About 2 & 1/2 years ago I had a stressful event occur in my life, now it has been resolved, for the most part - but at the time it pretty much wrecked my life. I used to be a smoker (cigs) when I was younger. I quit because my then boyfriend now husband...