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I was married for 7 years, together for 10. We never had children and had our struggles through the marriage. 3 years ago we decided he would leave the state for a few months to get some treatment for an autoimmune disease. He was also depressed and we were hoping a change of scenery would help...

It's authentic. I found my gf cheated on me by her text message. At first, I found during that time she looked especially panicked when the phone message rings, and she set a complicated password for her iPhone which is a secret to me. Once she told me her password but when I read her message, I...

I will try to keep it short as poss... My husband suffers from quite severe recurrent depression which we have discovered is worse in winter (SAD). The last two winters have been destroyed for us. The winter before last he had a breakdown and lost the ability to cope with work/kids, etc. Over...

I met him on normal, legit terms. We dated. We moved a little fast but both feel a little older and wiser after two divorces and children in our custody. When you know exactly what you want after years of experience, I think it's ok to move a little faster than would a single twenty-something...

The first time I bought my house I didnt have the full input into the situation. I was being calm and collected (?) as my ex dismantled my family and she pretty much forced me to buy the house. I bought it because I really like this house. Its quirky Post and beam modern with wrap around...

So when she announced I was lost in the woods for a time. I didn’t know about TAM and didn’t have the faintest clue where to go or what to do. Eventually I limped the thing out through a weird combination of instinct and stubbornness. I’m still trying to figure out if there was one specific...

So here it is...three years ago today, the judge banged a gavel and ended my marriage. It was not my choice. Oddly enough the sun came up the next day just like it always did.:) Funny that. Little by little my life began to improve. I got the things that I wanted and worked on myself to be a...

Cutting to the chase, my husband has a number of problems which equal one huge problem for me; 1.) Contacting, flirting and sexual reminiscing with numerous ex-girlfriends on-line. 2.) Visiting Chat-Sex rooms frequently for anonymous visual and audio sexual encounters. 3.) Skyping with women...

I am wondering if it is possible my husband is addicted to sex. He has a very high sex drive, and the past year has been almost impossible for me. Last year he had an affair, contacted and went to a happy massage place (or maybe a prostitute, I do not know), and was actively looking for more...

Hi everyone - I'm a 26 year old bloke, been in a relationship with my fiancee for two and half years now. We're getting married in March. I've been lurking and absorbing as much as possible from here for the last month or so, reading a couple of the Required Reading books from the Man Up/ Nice...

Jay got trapped and put into a situation he never wanted to be in. Jay (27) and his wife Lori (26) were crazy about each other and always have been. They had worked together at several businesses over the years and it was never a problem until Millie was hired. Within two weeks his world was...

Firstly, I'm not after advice about being obsessed with an ex or anything like that. I hope. I'm a divorcee with a 5 year old girl and a complicated relationship history. My first marrage fell apart as I was terribly co-dependent and work focused and my ex become highly religious following a...

I seem to post something in here every time my H and I are having problems, and it's constant! I'll put the situation in a nutshell if possible. H had prev unhealthy marriage, blamed all his character defects and inability to communicate and handle anger on his previous wife. She was...

I have been in an exclusive relationship for 3 1/2 years. We have lived together the last two years. I have four children by a previous relationship in which he has embraced and treats as if they are his own. Problem is, he has a cocaine addiction that we just can't seem to overcome. I...

I am 29 and have been with my husband for almost 11 years, married for 8 1/2. We have two children and its been a long road of emotional roller coaster events. My husband and I met young and used to party a lot when we met. When I became pregnant in 1999, I left that life as he continued. We...

I thought I would share something very personal today. The last couple of weeks I’ve found myself in several threads about how long do you go on in an unhappy marriage. When is enough, enough. Not long ago was the first anniversary since I found out about my wife’s emotional affair. A...