Search Results for ‘reconciliation’

Hi, Everyone. I’m new to the forum. I will apologize in advance for this being long and for any wrong grammar. I will try to get to the point. I have been married for 4 yrs to my wife who has two kids .I’m going to skip ahead to the current problems and if anything else from the past is asked...

Hi! So I am new here tonight. Not sure how to explain my situation. Husband went into a MLC 20 years ago after losing his BF, mom and dad all in a row. Definitely had affairs. Went form being an extremely involved Christian into our church and still believed in God, but was angry with Him...

Hi there. So in November 2021 my ex gf broke up with me saying that she'd been unhappy for 2 years and i was devastated. cue weeks of the classic horrific emotional roller coaster as we work together, live together and have two kids together and I have bo where to move to or the money to do it...

If you want all the details please look at my profile. Long story short... 5 years ago I had a 6 month long affair with a coworker during my first ever manic episode. I was undiagnosed at the time (I am bipolar one) and my husband, rightfully, divorced me. I got into treatment for my...

So I have posted previously. As everyone's situation is a bit different it would probably help to know the backstory, but to keep it short I [F 26] have been with my husband [M 32] since 2010. I wrecked our marriage by having an affair a few years ago. I didn't confess until October 2021. It...

My Husband and I have been together over 25 years. Just before 18 years together we split for 6 months, but we’re able to work out our relationship. In June of 2019 we got married. In Feb 2020 I left my job and our relationship almost immediately went South. All of this happening during...

Hello, I am introducing myself per the sign up instructions. I am mainly on this site because I found it informative leafing through the forums. I also joined because some things in a marriage are best talked about anonymously with people that don't know either party in the marriage. I am...

Hello everyone, I would like to share my story, sorry in advance if it is too long. Me and my partner have been together for 3 and a half years. It was not your common relationship, we started as coworkers and moved to my place directly after breaking up with his ex. Soon after that I bought a...

My wife and I have been at odds for many years. FIghting about literally every topic one can think of. I am by no mean an angel, but I show my wife respect, do virtually everything she asks me to do, and I do try to be a great husband and dad. I sure I fall short on many things but she does too...

Hey everyone! After an 8 month separation my husband (rather ex husband - still weird to say it like that) went ahead with the divorce and I got our divorce decree 2 weeks ago. I have been taking it OK-ish. I was a much worse mess before everything because I did not know if we were going to get...

My wife is the best thing thats ever happened to me. And we are getting a divorce. It's the single greatest pain I've ever gone through. You know how they say when a member of a long married couple passes away, the other often goes within 6 months? I completely understand why. I feel physically...

First a little back ground. My Ex and I are currently talking about getting back together. We were married for 24 years and have two great kids. The last two years of our marriage were very rocky. We both had multiple emotional affairs. I am not sure about physical affairs on her part (she...

* #

Hi Everyone. First post on the forums because I'm at a loss with my situation. Figuring people on these boards have heard stories similar to mine and might have some advice. My wife (29 and I'm 34) of 7 years, 11 years together, told me in August that she wanted a divorce. Three days later she...

Im curious about what made your husbands decide to come back? My husband is the one who doesn't want to work on things now but we still have sex, are very civil and have fun together when we spend time together. He is enjoying the party scene so Im waiting to see what will get him to realize...

My husband and I have been together 3 years and married 2. We have a 15 month old son as well. We are on month 4 of our separation and he is loving living the single life! I pushed him away after I had our son and up until a month ago we hadn't had sex for 8 months. We were fighting a lot and...

So... I'll try to be brief. I met my husband 6 years ago, we got together 6 months later and we were very happy. We were convinced that we were soul mates from the start and we moved in together just 5 months later. The beginning of the relationship was very intense, with a lot of love...

Yesterday in therapy, my therapist told me to get this book which I did, about EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy). I can't put it down. Has anybody read this? Put it into practice? What did you think? Did it work for you?

Hi everyone, I'm new here. My husband and I have been separated for 9 months and he is very obstinate. I've been employing mort fertel's practices for a couple of months now and it is making my husband really upset. He won't answer any of my calls and is very cold towards me. I'm keeping them...