reconcile

Guys I need some advice. I have messed up, and I have been for years. I'll try to make a long story short. Some background: I'm 35, so is my wife. We met in high school, but started dating about a year later. Within a year she's pregnant, and I go into "good guy" mode and we get married...

Hello all. Pardon the horrible typing. I am right handed and that currently is in a cast. My wife and I have been together for 8.5 years married for 4. She is everything to me. We started off AMAZING…. Everyone loved and according to those in the know still do think we make one of the best...

Last weekend my SIL called my husband and told him , his brother asked for a divorce. He is in love with a close family friend. He is not speaking to anyone, would not return phone calls, text or anything. This new love started 2 mths ago, when he did some housework for her. My SIL called me...

My husband, I believe, is in a depression. He is 27 and I am 24. We have been together for nearly 6 years and married for 6 months. Over the last month he became increasingly distant. He stopped sleeping in the bed, stopped kissing me, stopped asking me for rides to and from work (we have one...

I have been going through this situation with my husband for two years and now my gut says it's time to end our marriage. He refuses to give up on us. I have never discussed this with anyone and neither has he. I would greatly appreciate any feedback you have to give. Here is my short version...

I've been married for three years. I completely disrespected my husband and he ended up sleeping with a one night stand. He said he was sorry but a year later i was still hurt by it. I asked him to go to marital counseling and he said no so i moved out just to be away for awhile thinking it...

My wife and I have been together almost 30 years and a month ago she told me that she didn't want to be married anymore (it was the old "I still love you but I'm not in love with you and it's not you, it's me). She said that we had grown apart and that she couldn't see spending the rest of her...

I had got what I wanted 11 years ago. I fell in love with a culture and learned a new language fairly well and married a woman from that culture. Now, that I got what I wished for, I am divorced from her. She is in her mid 40s. My main issues were: 1.) During the winter holidays she would...

Hello to all, and congrats on what appears to be a great source for people like me, and I'm hoping by spilling my guts, I can start the process to live again. I'm 31, and married with two children, my girls (one biological- 15months) and one step daughter I've raised since about the same age of...

Hello to all. This has been a mind opening forum for me. My question is this... Concerning the exposure of a spouse's affair, What if the spouse who is cheating, emotionally or physically, is NOT interested in reconciling? My wife hates me, has been clinically depressed even before the...

My husband of 12-years and I have been in a long-distance relationship since August 2011 (we live 2500 miles apart). We do not have any children. Starting in October 2011 things started to go downhill very quickly. When he came home for Christmas my husband told me he really enjoyed his new...

My husband of 12-years and I have been in a long-distance relationship since August 2011 (we live 2500 miles apart). We do not have any children (although I had wanted to start having a family within the next few years). Starting in October 2011 things started to go downhill very quickly...

Thats what I've been told. She left about two months ago and has been telling me its her and not me. That she needs to work on herself. She feels to dependent on me, and we have become too depenent on each other. She reffered to it as a "rut". We have been married 10 years a month ago, that...

My wife & I (of 4.5 years) were separated this same time last year for a few months. During our separation, we worked on our own issues, and we also were in counseling together & worked on our marriage. Within a few months and with God's grace and strength, we were back together & have been...

I'm currently deployed to Afghanistan. I've been married for 17yrs...just the last few yrs have been rocky due to finances and seperations. She just announced that she wants a divorce. She said that she loves me...but is no longer "in love"with me, she isn't having an affair, but she wants to...

Around Oct/Nov of 2010 my wife and I got into a fight so she loaded up the kids and headed to her mom's house. We had been in this situation a few times before but this time I told her if she goes then she could stay gone. Well out of stubbornness I never told her sorry or asked her to come...

My mother is in the hospital in new york with a terminal illness. I only recently moved to Florida where I stay with my sister until I can get a place of my own. I am married......well separated from my wife and 2 kids. They live in North carolina, and we are reconciling. My wife and I have...

I have been married almost 11 years to a woman I met 15 years ago. She is a wonderful person who my family loves very much. Our marriage has been lifeless for some time now, bearing little intimacy which, until recently, wasn't bothering me... at least I wasn't acknowledging that it was...