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Hi, sorry this might be long read and kind of all over the place, I just need to get it off my chest and vent and look for some advice I've been separated for almost 4 months now, I'm 42 male and she's a 39 year old female. We been together for almost 20 years, married for 8yrs, have a house...

Hi all, my husband and I got married about 11 months ago. Sorry if this is long. I don’t want to miss a single point. You may ask questions if I missed anything. Prior to getting married, we were together for 2 years and 3 months. About a week ago, I got upset with my husband, (something...

My first love and I were together for around 3 years before we broke up about 7 years ago, it was a mutual break up as we were quite young and things fizzled out. During the time we were apart she did have a 2 year relationship shortly after she left but that she got cheated on. She did add me...

My first love and I were together for around 3 years before we broke up about 7 years ago, it was a mutual break up as we were quite young and things fizzled out. During the time we were apart she did have a 2 year relationship shortly after she left but that she got cheated on. She did add me...

My wife and I (married less than a year together for 5 with a two year old son) have recently started a separation process. I was not the best husband. She has valued reasons to be where she is. Binge drinking was an issue although no physical abuse or cheating. But I did drunk call women...

I recently found out few weeks ago that my wife had an affair with her co-worker while we were dating. We have been married for a year and the affair happened around 6-7 months before we got married. My wife told about this herself as she was suffering from the guilt and didn't want to hide it...

Hello TAM community, I'm coming to you out of desperation in need of as much sage advice as I can get... Long-story short, I threatened my wife that I would take full custody of our unborn child. It was a foolish, desperate attempt to get her to realize that I am just as much committed to the...

Hello! I am new here, and of course, you guessed it, its because I am going through a divorce (sort-of). Long story short, my husband and I were married for almost 6 years and created a beautiful daughter who is 4. My husband is also ex-military and came with all of that good PTSD. I will say...

I met my wife traveling the world as a performer, she is a performer as well. We started out as friends and became very good friends. neither of us was single at the time and really had no devices on the other...just a great friendship plane and simple. We were friends for about 5-6 months...

I and my husband of 10 years are working on reconciliation, after a short separation. Just to give you a bit of backstory, my husband had an EA, which culminated in his meeting the OW at a motel, where I discovered them. Trust is still a major issue for me, and I still snoop through his email...

Recently divorced - Really want my ex wife back. So here's my story. Was married for little over 2yrs. Together for 6 years. We've shared a lot of great memories. Been through are fair share of ups and downs. We both don't do drugs and sober. We've traveled out of the country and across the...

At this point in my marriage i am completely confused. I really need advice on what i should do. talkin to friends and family just doesnt work bc of course they are bias. So the situation is this. Me and my husband got married in May 2013. shortly after, around August 2013, he and i seperated...

I've been married for three years. I completely disrespected my husband and he ended up sleeping with a one night stand. He said he was sorry but a year later i was still hurt by it. I asked him to go to marital counseling and he said no so i moved out just to be away for awhile thinking it...

I hope to find some support on this... After long....long... deliberation, I've decided to give the M another try. 1- We begin MC this week ( to both address boundaries and expected behavior) 2- We're taking a trip out of town in two weeks. I'm scared, but feel this is best. I am thankful...

My wife of 7 years left me on November 10th over an email she mistook as me trying to have an affair. This was the furthest thing from my mind. I believe she knows this now, however we haven't communicated since Monday the 26th. She asked me for time and to give her space, which I've complied...

I could sure use some unbiased advice… I have been separated for a year, wife of 11 years moved out 7 months ago. We always cared and loved for each other, but grew apart in the last few years and i sensed some distance, and from time to time, felt that she wasn't happy. Last year i found out...

Im not sure which section this falls under (infidelity, considering divorce, separating, or reconciliation) I'm just looking for some input, feedback or advice on my situatuion. I have been married for 5 years. I look now at allot of warning signs that I ignored because I was in love and my...

Hi. I'm relatively new to the forum but my husband and I have been struggling for quite some time. We have been in therapy since April, both together and separately. We have two boys, age 10 & 11. We have been married for over 18 years. We have had a lot of ups and downs in terms of...

I posted a thread in the "considering divorce" forum a couple of nights ago and now its in the doing through divorce phase. I didnt beg and plead, but i did call and talk, said things i needed to say, was hurtful a bit but kept my cool. and even though i asked him to not call or text me...