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  1. Wife had and affair with co-worker

    Coping with Infidelity
    I recently found out few weeks ago that my wife had an affair with her co-worker while we were dating. We have been married for a year and the affair happened around 6-7 months before we got married. My wife told about this herself as she was suffering from the guilt and didn't want to hide it...
  2. Please help! I regretfully threatened to take custody of our unborn child.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello TAM community, I'm coming to you out of desperation in need of as much sage advice as I can get... Long-story short, I threatened my wife that I would take full custody of our unborn child. It was a foolish, desperate attempt to get her to realize that I am just as much committed to the...
  3. Mind-Games?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello! I am new here, and of course, you guessed it, its because I am going through a divorce (sort-of). Long story short, my husband and I were married for almost 6 years and created a beautiful daughter who is 4. My husband is also ex-military and came with all of that good PTSD. I will say...
  4. In need of different points of view...

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I met my wife traveling the world as a performer, she is a performer as well. We started out as friends and became very good friends. neither of us was single at the time and really had no devices on the other...just a great friendship plane and simple. We were friends for about 5-6 months...
  5. I don't want to wreck our reconciliation, but...

    Reconciliation
    I and my husband of 10 years are working on reconciliation, after a short separation. Just to give you a bit of backstory, my husband had an EA, which culminated in his meeting the OW at a motel, where I discovered them. Trust is still a major issue for me, and I still snoop through his email...
  6. Recently divorced but missing my ex wife

    Reconciliation
    Recently divorced - Really want my ex wife back. So here's my story. Was married for little over 2yrs. Together for 6 years. We've shared a lot of great memories. Been through are fair share of ups and downs. We both don't do drugs and sober. We've traveled out of the country and across the...
  7. Confusion about everything!

    Reconciliation
    At this point in my marriage i am completely confused. I really need advice on what i should do. talkin to friends and family just doesnt work bc of course they are bias. So the situation is this. Me and my husband got married in May 2013. shortly after, around August 2013, he and i seperated...
  8. Going through a 90 day trial separation

    Reconciliation
    I've been married for three years. I completely disrespected my husband and he ended up sleeping with a one night stand. He said he was sorry but a year later i was still hurt by it. I asked him to go to marital counseling and he said no so i moved out just to be away for awhile thinking it...
  9. Giving it another go...

    Reconciliation
    I hope to find some support on this... After long....long... deliberation, I've decided to give the M another try. 1- We begin MC this week ( to both address boundaries and expected behavior) 2- We're taking a trip out of town in two weeks. I'm scared, but feel this is best. I am thankful...
  10. What am I doing wrong???

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My wife of 7 years left me on November 10th over an email she mistook as me trying to have an affair. This was the furthest thing from my mind. I believe she knows this now, however we haven't communicated since Monday the 26th. She asked me for time and to give her space, which I've complied...
  11. Separated for a year and wife wants me back?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I could sure use some unbiased advice… I have been separated for a year, wife of 11 years moved out 7 months ago. We always cared and loved for each other, but grew apart in the last few years and i sensed some distance, and from time to time, felt that she wasn't happy. Last year i found out...
  12. Please help and give me your feedback!!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Im not sure which section this falls under (infidelity, considering divorce, separating, or reconciliation) I'm just looking for some input, feedback or advice on my situatuion. I have been married for 5 years. I look now at allot of warning signs that I ignored because I was in love and my...
  13. Reconciliation after separation? Is it possible?

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    Hi. I'm relatively new to the forum but my husband and I have been struggling for quite some time. We have been in therapy since April, both together and separately. We have two boys, age 10 & 11. We have been married for over 18 years. We have had a lot of ups and downs in terms of...
  14. First week of seperation, still trying to reach out

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I posted a thread in the "considering divorce" forum a couple of nights ago and now its in the doing through divorce phase. I didnt beg and plead, but i did call and talk, said things i needed to say, was hurtful a bit but kept my cool. and even though i asked him to not call or text me...
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