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  1. Not sure what to do

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hello everyone, Just registered. I have been away from my wife for just over three months now. We have a child together (20 mo old). She has been keeping him from me, having only let me see him twice now for a total of about 2 hours in the last 3 months. I have filed for divorce since I was...
  2. Still Can't Forget & Getting Worse!

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    Hi to everyone, I've been on this helpful site for a long time. I'm back again, still having trouble. I'm sure most of you will remember me, Granny7. I wish I could say things were better, but they aren't. We've moved to another state, N. Carolina, from our home of 47 yrs. in Fl. to the...
  3. Suffering from PTSD 30 years after discovering husbands affair!

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    Hi To Everyone who doesn't want to be here, I was a member many years ago and now have come back again. My husband had an affair during our 25 years of marriage, right before our 25th. Anniversary. I found out because the other women's husband mailed me a copy of the love letter/cards that he...
  4. Wife left while I was struggling with PTSD

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am in a very dark place. I tried to kill myself last week. I have suffered with PTSD, depression and anxiety for a while and I was drinking to cope. I was never violent or anything like that. I know my wife didn't like me drinking but she knew why I was drinking. My wife and I weren't...
  5. Wife left while I was struggling with PTSD

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am in a very dark place. I tried to kill myself last week. I have suffered with PTSD, depression and anxiety for a while and I was drinking to cope. I was never violent or anything like that. I know my wife didn't like me drinking but she knew why I was drinking. My wife and I weren't...
  6. Dealing with husband's PTSD - HELP

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
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  7. Mind-Games?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello! I am new here, and of course, you guessed it, its because I am going through a divorce (sort-of). Long story short, my husband and I were married for almost 6 years and created a beautiful daughter who is 4. My husband is also ex-military and came with all of that good PTSD. I will say...
  8. I'm new and I don't know how my perfect life fell apart

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    In 2014 I got engaged and married my long time sweetheart. We were blissful and happy. Like the kind of mushy stuff everyone envies and says makes them sick, but really they are just jealous of the happiness they perceive. While we were engaged he lost his job, started drinking too much, but...
  9. The 180 - Lessons Learned - Guidance Appreciated

    Coping with Infidelity
    Long Time Lurker - First Time Poster - I'm looking for guidance and some tough leadership from the veterans. I'd like to share my situation, my early grasp of the 180 (and how I failed just like you vets said could happen), but also the good things that I accomplished. I'm going to crank...
  10. Is It Time To Move On?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    :confused:I have been abused by my wife, our children and my wife’s family for years and I think my wife is narcissistic. I have not reported it because I know there is no help available for men, especially for an American man stuck living in England. My wife was not meant to be able to have...
  11. Just admitted to being CSA and had sex w/the man I told

    Coping with Infidelity
    I wish I knew where to start, I am 45 years old and just admitted to being sexually abused from the age of 10 until 24 by a close family friend that lived next door then became my "guardian" after my parents divorced. My mother became an extreme alcoholic around the time we met our neighbor, I...
  12. I cheated, now she doesnt believe in monogomy/please help!

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am going to try and explain the past and present as briefly as possible: My wife and I met, fell in love, had amazing sex, a strong relationship, I lost custody of my son from a previous marriage, she stood by my side during a custody battle, i had PTSD and became emotionally unavailable...
  13. My beloved genius makes me question my humanity

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My SO is a brilliant and accomplished man. He is “difficult” in many ways - self-absorbed, often lost in the esoteric, compulsive in his work – but, towards me has always been passionate, warm, and respectful. I love him dearly, and am comfortable with his unusual ways. Recently, however, he...
  14. I feel like our marriage is falling apart.

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My husband and I have been married for almost two years. When we first got married we were both in the military in two different branches. Now I am out of the military as I fufilled my 6 year commitment and contract. My husband is still in the military and his job has relocated us overseas. We...
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