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My wife found downloaded porn on my phone yesterday, I did watch it, but didn't realize it got downloaded. She was deeply hurt, I was embarrassed when she told me. She went to work and I started to look in google for some advice (which landed me here), I found a lot of information that made me...

Hello everyone, I would like to have feedback, support, and help regarding my marriage problems. I’ll start from the beginning. I was 22 y/o when I got married. For me, I was a very immature person to be labeled a “wife” or “responsible person”. I was very stupid, and carefree person. Always...

Hi i have a question, if someone can help me whit this ill appreciate i have been with my now wife for 10 years i pretty much know everything a bout her we finally were able to tie the knot on december last year but our wedding wasn't the best thing ever i must say, there were a lot of...

Hello to you all, I have been following these threads and feel it is time for some advice of my own. I met my now Husband about 5 years ago during studying. He is German and me been English. For me it was love at first sight and for him it took longer. We never argued to start with we got...

I really don't know how to work things out with my wife sometimes. In many ways it feels like I married a teenager (we are both 28, been married 5 years). She is often moody, immature, selfish, and prideful. This is not a constant thing, but seems to be more and more frequent. I saw some of...

My husband feels when it comes to business matters or furthering myself or career, I don't listen to him. He feels I only listen to others and ignore or disbelieve him when he tells me I should or I could do something. I feel like I listen and respect my husband. I also feel that sometimes be...

I love my wife and kids (13 years married/3 kids) more than anything. She told me that she has been unhappy for 5 years and now it has increased to a decade. One minute she tells me that I haven't been an engaged parent or partner, the next she tells me that I'm an amazing dad and that she...

Hello, I basically want to know if I am just a ***** or if all men require this type of thing. Okay, I work about four hours from my house, I drive down once and stay for two to three weeks then drive back home. While I am working my husband is at home taking care of our animals and the...

So, my husband and I have had nearly the same argument over and over about his career...or rather lack thereof. He is in the music industry, and works non-traditional hours. We have two school-age kids. At one time we were both working outside the home. He argued about who would pick up the...

Hey guys! First off I'd like to say I'm glad to have stumbled across these forums. I live in a tech world and always thought I could google anything but never thought about relationship / family advice. Issue at hand in a nutshell: My wife and mother do not get along. Ok, that is really...

This is going to be long, so if you don't want to read it all here is the tl;dr - Married for less than 2.5 years and there's already almost no intimacy in my marriage. I was here over a year ago and things don't seem to be changing. Here's my post from last year: Less than 1.5 years and...

I know that most of us have been through a lot, so much so that we become suspicious, cynical and can't or we aren't able to put ourselves into the other person's shoes. It is understandable however people come here to find help and support. They also come with a bunch of experiences and...

Dear All, First, thanks in advance for reading my long post. I do not know where to start and where to end but I am going to give this a try. I will cut to the chase: About Me and My Wife: Both internationals in US (on the way to becoming citizens) Graduate degree holders with good jobs and...

Hoping to get some points of view from people on this one. Sorry for the novel, in advance!! LOL! I'm almost 29, I've been married for 2 1/2 years and with my husband for almost 4 1/2, no children, and live in Los Angeles. My husband is from here and I grew up in Virginia but have been here for...

My wife and I are not living together at this time. A few days ago she posted a pic on Facebook from her phone and it showed her location (by way of GPS or something like that). Any way, the location was not at the place she lives. I asked her why is it showing that location and she replied that...

We would all like to get along with our inlaws, really we would, I believe it would make our lives sooooo much easier. Though it just seems that they are out to get us, all the time... and for me, it will be a life long mystery as to why? Ladies, the least we can do is support each other as...

I realize this is a marriage forum and im not married, but ive been with my girlfriend for 9 years. we have a six year old and might as well be married. she has had short lived jobs here and there , but is currently not working. I pay for everything and work around 60 hours a week. she does not...

hey. my name is jay. im 24 and my wife left 1 month ago. we were together for 8 years and married for 1. we have a 10 month old daughter named jade. things were always special between us. we did everything together and thought we would be together forever. we were 16 and both worked at mcdonalds...

I am 17.. I have, the past few years, developed some major issues. No one really knows about it, because no one will understand. I'm insecure, I can't trust people, I feel like everyone is out to get me, I have no friends, and I'm worrying myself sick that my Fiancee is going to leave me or hurt...

I am beginning to think that I am literally losing my mind. I've been married (second marriage) for only a couple of months to someone I've known for barely longer than a year. I met him at a previous job, not long after breaking off an intense long-term relationship. I had no interest in a new...