posessiveness

Hello, I have been married for 3 years to my wife. My wife is a housewife & is very beautiful , loving ,caring , compassionate, romantic but gets very emotional over small petty issues. I have a 9am to 8am (at times I work till 9pm or 10pm) job 5 days a week (sometimes I go in on weekends)...

Just as background, this is about an intercultural Asian/Western marriage. He must think I'm an idiot. That girl cried sooo hard two years ago, and I can still hear their conversation ringing in my ears. I could hear the whole conversation coming out of the phone on her end, and from him...