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My wife found downloaded porn on my phone yesterday, I did watch it, but didn't realize it got downloaded. She was deeply hurt, I was embarrassed when she told me. She went to work and I started to look in google for some advice (which landed me here), I found a lot of information that made me...

Raw details: He is 35, I just turned 30.I have maintained my weight and looks despite having a child and am considered pretty and sexy looking (32DD with 25 waist and 38 hip/ass ratio at 5'2" with nice face). We have 1 child together. Together 6-7ish years. Problem: Husband makes excuses like...

I could have written this post 10 years ago, and might have honestly. I just don't remember. I just need an outsider opinion and I can't talk to anyone I know. I'll try to keep it brief. I'm not an overly affectionate person. Nor am I a great communicator. I tend to NOT talk about issues...

Where do I start... I’ve been married for almost 21 years. I have 3 children and I want a divorce. My husband claims to love me and says he will never stop loving me that I am the love of his life... my story is LONG sand could be made into a Sunday night movie- I grew up very religious and...

Hello, Married 21 years, 4 kids 20,18,13 & 11. Back in 2014 I found out my wife was texting a man from her work. Not sure what made me start looking other than a gut feeling something wasn't right. She claims that it never got romantic and that she didn't think of him that way. I tried to...

I've had many issues with my husband - he's chased several women he works with over the years, but without success. He has been dealing with depression and anxiety his whole life, and attributes a lot of his behavior to that. Recently, we went through several months of marriage counseling after...

Hello, I am new here and stressed/upset beyond belief. I hope that you all will not add more stress by judging me for what I have been going through willingly....until now. I have been dating a fellow (much younger) for 7 plus months now and he informed me in the beginning that he likes to...

My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years. This is my third marriage, his first. He has struggled with sexual addictions long bf I came into the picture (and had no clue about until after we were married). I've tried helping him. He's tried visiting several psychologists with no...

OMG. Please tell me what this means although I think I am already believing the worst. I was going to sell my husbands iPad and I noticed I could see some of his emails. You might know we have been to a counselor regarding our fighting/relationship;... he forced me off our joint account in...

Hi guys, Are there married man who do not use porn ? I do know the existence of people who think porn is okay : nothing wrong and could actually help in intimacy. But right now I really appreciate it alot if those who don't use it ( or try not to) to show yourself. --- For me, it is a form of...

Hi, I have been with my husband 16 years and married for 12. We have always had a pretty good sex life until about a year or two ago. I noticed my husband did not initiate sex as much as he used to and if I initiated sex he would turn me down and say he was tired. He has also become a very...

Is this a real phenomenon... I've read more than one view on this subject and I am able to ejaculate with porn but unable to ejaculate through sex with wife... I made a decision to quit porn because I heard it can interfere with my ability to keep an erection and ejaculate during porn... I've...

I have been watching porn flix since I was 19 (18 years) pretty regularly when I am in relationships and between relationships. I probably watch porn 2-3 times a week to get off, sometimes a little more if I'm not having sex. My question has to do with disclosure. I've never told a single gf...

I'm hesitant to return here after a lot of the negativity I saw on my last thread, but I'm not going to over-think this, here goes: Bite Size recap: I'm 31, my wife is 30, and we've been officially married for 12 years and have a 10 y/o child. After years of maintaining a porn addiction, a...

Hello Everyone, I have been married twice and still have one common problem linking them both. I am married and I am still addicted to porn. I have been married to this woman since May 2014 and we've been together since May 2013. I want to quit but I keep failing at it. My...

Hi everyone. This is my first posting on here, and truth be told I am really nervous. I am an extremely private woman, who has never breathed a word to even my best friend about what I am about to get help/advice for here. My husband and I have been married for just over three months, and we...

Hey there - I have seen many book recommendations about coping with infidelity or being strong and setting boundaries but those do not seem to target what kind of person I am or what I am dealing with inside my marriage so I am looking for some other options. Here's my story in a nutshell...

Hello everyone, I have been a long-time stalker of TAM. My husband and I went through a major rough patch about two years ago. When I met him, he was perfect, attentive, unlike the cheating lying men before him. I knew he watched porn from the beginning, and in the beginning, it was completely...

Hello Everyone, I’m very new to all of this but have nowhere else to turn. Not sure where to start but here we go :) Dated my now husband for about 2 1/2 years it was a long distance relationship but only about an hour away from each other. We had our ups and downs like all relationships do...

Porn has been a big issue in my married life. So many fights it lead to. It is hard to live with someone who portrays to be one person, but deep inside is someone else, and off course you only get to know this with time and living together. We have been married for almost 12 years, sex was...