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  1. Relationships and Addiction
    Let me begin. We basically have a dead bedroom. Less than 5x a year. A couple of years ago, we went 13 months. My moral compass seems to be more concerned with the performers and the hurt making porn causes many if not all of them. My preference for porn is women over 40, not skinny, with...
  2. New Member Introductions
    Well my problem in that my husband regularly.... Daily logs onto webcam girl any chance he gets. Before I'm home from work, when I'm in the bath. Even if I'm I'll in bed like last night. I knew what he'd be doing and I was right. I can't even be I'll in peace. I just don't want him to touch me...
  3. General Relationship Discussions
    Hello! I have been with my partner for 10 years, we have 2 beautiful children together and generally have a very easy-going and loving relationship. The one thing I am not okay with is porn. To me, it is fantasizing about being with another, probably better looking woman etc. (By the way, do men...
  4. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone, I've just joined this site for some external advice that isn't family or friends. I will try to cut to the chase but there is a lot to this issue, but I've just discovered something today that's brought everything to the forefront (again), and I'm trying to determine whether I am...
  5. Relationships and Addiction
    My husband and I have been married for going on 5 months now. I have had multiple relationships where the significant other would watch porn but it was not a problem for me. I knew my husband did when we first got married but I didn’t realize how bad it was until the first month of marriage. he...
  6. Relationships and Addiction
    As I sit here and think about it I cannot remember a time when my husband wasn't making me feel insecure due to his behavior which is my fault for looking past his flaws and still marrying him. When we were dating he used to have a roaming eye but tmk he's never cheated which is usually his...
  7. Sex in Marriage
    My wife found downloaded porn on my phone yesterday, I did watch it, but didn't realize it got downloaded. She was deeply hurt, I was embarrassed when she told me. She went to work and I started to look in google for some advice (which landed me here), I found a lot of information that made me...
  8. Sex in Marriage
    Raw details: He is 35, I just turned 30.I have maintained my weight and looks despite having a child and am considered pretty and sexy looking (32DD with 25 waist and 38 hip/ass ratio at 5'2" with nice face). We have 1 child together. Together 6-7ish years. Problem: Husband makes excuses like...
  9. Sex in Marriage
    I could have written this post 10 years ago, and might have honestly. I just don't remember. I just need an outsider opinion and I can't talk to anyone I know. I'll try to keep it brief. I'm not an overly affectionate person. Nor am I a great communicator. I tend to NOT talk about issues...
  10. New Member Introductions
    Where do I start... I’ve been married for almost 21 years. I have 3 children and I want a divorce. My husband claims to love me and says he will never stop loving me that I am the love of his life... my story is LONG sand could be made into a Sunday night movie- I grew up very religious and...
  11. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello, Married 21 years, 4 kids 20,18,13 & 11. Back in 2014 I found out my wife was texting a man from her work. Not sure what made me start looking other than a gut feeling something wasn't right. She claims that it never got romantic and that she didn't think of him that way. I tried to...
  12. General Relationship Discussions
    I've had many issues with my husband - he's chased several women he works with over the years, but without success. He has been dealing with depression and anxiety his whole life, and attributes a lot of his behavior to that. Recently, we went through several months of marriage counseling after...
  13. The Ladies' Lounge
    Hello, I am new here and stressed/upset beyond belief. I hope that you all will not add more stress by judging me for what I have been going through willingly....until now. I have been dating a fellow (much younger) for 7 plus months now and he informed me in the beginning that he likes to...
  14. General Relationship Discussions
    My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years. This is my third marriage, his first. He has struggled with sexual addictions long bf I came into the picture (and had no clue about until after we were married). I've tried helping him. He's tried visiting several psychologists with no...
  15. Coping with Infidelity
    OMG. Please tell me what this means although I think I am already believing the worst. I was going to sell my husbands iPad and I noticed I could see some of his emails. You might know we have been to a counselor regarding our fighting/relationship;... he forced me off our joint account in...
  16. The Men's Clubhouse
    Hi guys, Are there married man who do not use porn ? I do know the existence of people who think porn is okay : nothing wrong and could actually help in intimacy. But right now I really appreciate it alot if those who don't use it ( or try not to) to show yourself. --- For me, it is a form of...
  17. Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I have been with my husband 16 years and married for 12. We have always had a pretty good sex life until about a year or two ago. I noticed my husband did not initiate sex as much as he used to and if I initiated sex he would turn me down and say he was tired. He has also become a very...
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