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  1. General Relationship Discussion
    Okay, I have just learned my husband has a porn addiction. We are very sexually active. I have tons and tons of sexy stuff, send him picsand videos whenever he wants. Thousands for his spank bank (literally). And I have giant fake boobs as well!! He has been caught numerous times. I am not okay...
  2. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello everyone! I am new here, I've been reading for weeks but today I decided to join. Here is "my thing" I've been married for almost 13 years to a very quiet and reserved man, he loves me and he is a good father to our 2 kids (7 and 4), he used to work part-time and now he has a full time job...
  3. Considering Divorce or Separation
    H and I have been together for 5 years, married for almost 4 years. A few mnths before we got married, I found a huge porn stash along with nude pictures of past lovers/girlfriends. I confronted him about it and he promised to delete everything and that it wouldn't happen again. (Back story, my...
  4. Coping with Infidelity
    We have been together for 14 years. And we got married 3 years ago. We have a 2-year old boy. I am convinced by the signs that he is cheating on me but he says I'm being paranoid and OCD and asks me to seek help. I need advice. These are the signs. 1) Before we got married, I have caught him...
  5. Sex in Marriage
    Last year my husband raped me while I was asleep. I've been super cautious sleeping now around him. While looking through the browser history on our laptop trying to find an old page, I see that he has been looking up RAPE PORN! I don't understand this! Is it some weird fetish!? I don't know...
  6. Sex in Marriage
    Hi everyone, I don't know if this is a common topic or not, but I'm struggling to understand whether or not my husband has a sexual addiction or not. We've been married two years, and while dating lived separately. For the first 3 months of dating, I was unaware of how much he was looking at...
  7. General Relationship Discussion
    My husband has an addiciction to porn/sex. I am not ok with him waching it at all. We have had several talks about it, and he informs me that he will stop. He sometimes tells me he doesnt like his addiction and he wants to stop. Then other times he tells me his need or wanting to watch porn is...
  8. Relationships and Addiction
    My Husband and I have only been married 5 months but have been together about 2-3 years. I don't know how to handle this. I moved in with him after our daughter was born in 2011. For the most part things were going great. I was using his computer for me and I discovered under his book marks porn...
  9. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I am new to this, and this is my first post. I am married, 29 and a mother of 4 amazing kids.I am married to my very best friend and I feel like we have a very close bond. But he has been lieing to me, and trying to hide things from me. And he has a problem with looking at other girls...
  10. Sex in Marriage
    I know I want MEN to answer this and the reason I am directing this question to all the men is because as a woman I have many women friends that have already given their 2 cents and I really need advice; real advice! I have not had sex with my fiance in TWO MONTHS and he just admitted to me that...
  11. Relationships and Addiction
    About us: newlyweds, 19 and 20 years old. Yes, I know we're young. This thread isn't about how young we are; it's about helping another human being. My husband has admitted to me that he is moderately addicted to hentai (Japanese anime/cartoon porn) (more addicted to this than regular...
  12. Sex in Marriage
    Hi everybody, the situation that I'm living is a bit strange and I would like to hear your thoughts and advices. I am married with an older man, he is 65 and I'm 26. We are married for 4 years. The second time I came to his home (when we were dating somehow) I found that he was very much into...
  13. Relationships and Addiction
    Yes, yet another porn addict post. I read alot of them, and how do people cope with it? I met my bf in September 2010. he moved in in Oct. (too fast) It was all good and wonderful at first, he interacted with my kids, even took my 14 yr old to work with him. They were so hungry for a...
  14. Relationships and Addiction
    Hello! My fiancée and I have been together for almost four years. He proposed in March 2011 and I of course said yes. At the time, I was very happy, but I secretly was a little concerned. In the year and a half or so before our engagement, our romantic relationship had dwindled to almost...
  15. General Relationship Discussion
    I am at my wits end on how to handle this one. After finally realizing that he and his ex DO NOT want each other back, now I have a new dilemma. My husband and I have been married for a little over a year, but together for almost 2 years, and we have a very productive sex life. We have shared...
  16. The Ladies' Lounge
    hi, this is the 1st time i am sharing in a forum cos i cannot share these things with my family or his..hope someone can guide me.. we knew each other since school and got married this year after waiting for 15 years..wherein we faced our ups and down but always stood by each other and our love...
  17. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello, So Ive been married for 3 years now, and a year ago my wife caught me watching porn, something I had struggled with for many years before. I have tried so hard to stop watching it becuase she (and myself) consider it adultry and a breaking of our marriage vows. After the original time a...
  18. Sex in Marriage
    My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for a little under 2. We have a wonderful marriage and a great foundation in every aspect but sex. It started about 5 years ago when we bought our first house together, he started to become less interested in sex with me. He rarely...
  19. Sex in Marriage
    Hello, I am new and in need of some advice. I have been with my fiance for approx 3 years now, we just had a baby 2 months ago. During my pregnancy we NEVER had sex, he said he was afraid of hurting the baby. I bought him magazines, and books that explained it was normal and safe to do so...
  20. Relationships and Addiction
    :confused: Fair warning, this post may turn out to be a book. But I feel like it'd be unfair to just give part of the story without giving some background info. My husband and I have been married for almost a year (Aug 22nd) and this issue reared its ugly head around a week after we were...
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