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  1. So confused

    Coping with Infidelity
    W and I have have been together for 9 years, married for 3, we're both 29 and have no kids. I always thought we were happy and we had a strong connection, though in hindsight I guess we were pretty conflict avoidant. A few months ago she started having an EA with a coworker. I didn't know what...
  2. What would you do?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I originally posted this under the General Discussion section, but was advised to post it here. For those that have already read this under General section, I appreciate you responses. I am posting here as recommended to see if there are any additional thoughts. Is this emotional infidelity...
  3. My Story with Betrayel

    Coping with Infidelity
    My Story with Betrayal I will break this up into four parts: Overview of her affair Description of people involved Things I have learned and would change Some questions Overview: About three months ago my wife confessed to me that she was seeing someone (an affair but she would not admit to...
  4. Letter to my S2BXW?...I believe I can finally move on from this...

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I have other post under S4E and Struggling4ever that explain my long painful story, but as a short background, after 20 years of marriage, my wife had an ongoing affair with my best friend about 12 years ago. I found out when I found they were away on a cruise together. It ended abruptly and we...
  5. Another She Cheated Thread.

    Coping with Infidelity
    I would like to say first and foremost, I've been reading around here for a few hours and really like some of the comments and advice I've seen so far. I'm seeking advice on my current situation from unbiased bystanders. Thanks in advance for reading my post. So a bit of backstory, we met...
  6. Do triggers and memories ever go away?

    Coping with Infidelity
    After deleting, I'm back with my story…update to follow, My wife had an affair 11 yrs ago. I found out when she went on a cruise with her sisters and I called the cruise line to send flowers. When they said my wife wasn't registered, they asked if she was registered under another name. A voice...
  7. Found out my wife cheated. What to do?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife and I have been together for 10 years. About five years ago, I had an affair with a woman I had briefly dated about 9 years earlier. The affair was a stupid thing to do, but at the time I was feeling like I needed space and told my wife so. The two of us determined to work on the...
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