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  1. Are introverts unattractive?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Do you find introverts unattractive? I tend to be attracted to extroverts, but am an introvert. After reading this book I've come to the conclusion that I'm somewhat introverted. This book kind of opened my eyes to a...
  2. High n Lows of Marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    We have been married for almost 7 years. No kids. Dog and cat. Its hard to describe everything in a relationship :) but I will try my best. When we were in college we were madly in love. We lived together for about 4 months and decided to get married. Its been almost 7 years and I am having...
  3. Separated but ambivalent about divorcing wife

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I have been separated from my wife of 19 years for almost a year now. Until recently, I thought we were headed to divorce. But last week, we had a conversation about divorce and our lives and she appeared to be evolving from the hard, unloving, hypercritical, manipulative, and lying woman I...
  4. Can't see having kids with wife

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife was not who I was thought she was. Her personality is some one that now clashes with mine on many views. If we had a child I know that we would not be able to agree on how to raise them. When we first were together we agreed on children but since the change I can't see it happening. If...
  5. My wives personality has changed.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife and I have a new marriage which is just over two years. But since about month two I have felt unhappy. Her personality started shifting shortly after we were married. I joined the service and while I was gone she was partying almost daily. The rare chances we got to talk she was just...
  6. Wife shows symptoms of borderline personality disorder - pushing my family away

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I have been married for 4 years. I've always known that my wife was abused as a child, physically, emotionally, sexually. She was raised in poverty and spent time in woman's shelters when her mother was in between relationships. When we met, I was convinced that she was my soul mate, I have...
  7. Finally I came out of FOG and ran away of 14 years of marriage

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Here is my Story: I have been married for 14 years and now have a 8 years of son. What a bumpy road of my marriage when I look back. I just informed my lawyer to file the divorce for me. My wife can be a lovely and caring friend. That was what let me fell into love with. But Just after...
  8. Personality Clash/ Communication Issues

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, this is my very first post. I am currently separated from my husband and we are heading in the direction of divorce. I think that I should say that I am in my mid-20s and my husband and I got married after only 8 months of dating. We had been friends for 5 years before we starting dating. We...