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I know this will probably seem stupid to everyone reading this for several reasons and I am aware of this. But the thing is, it still bothers me a great deal. The wife feels it is a non issue because it occured "so long ago." Here is goes: I have been with my wife since HS and we have been...

Hello everyone I have been married for a 9 months with my wife whit whom we have been in relationship 7 years before we got married. We are both 27year old now which mean we start at our 20. We both love each other and we are honest with each other, but ist hardly been a night without...

I think you heard a lot about men with problems regarding their wife’s sexual past but can I tell you mine and ask if you can maybe tell me why I feel the way I do and why do this feelings come and go. Me and my wife grew up in the same little town, Fist time I noted my wife were at a fair she...

Hi all, I am new and very happy to have found this forum. I would like your input. My husband and I have been married for 8 years. Before our marriage we were together for 3 years. During the time before our marriage, we both cheated on each other. He actually had a couple of...

I have other post under S4E and Struggling4ever that explain my long painful story, but as a short background, after 20 years of marriage, my wife had an ongoing affair with my best friend about 12 years ago. I found out when I found they were away on a cruise together. It ended abruptly and we...

My husband and I met when I was 15 and he was 17. It was love at first sight for both of us. We became inseparable very quickly. I'd never felt anything like it before, nor have I felt anything like it since. I still love this man with all my heart and soul, and I have NEVER loved anyone else. I...

Hey, I need advice. Im in a relatively new relationship. We moved fast and we are living together, me her son and her. (PS, IM GAY) Im not used to children but i really love this kid and the woman im with is everything i could dream of. Ive had some rough past relationships. Heres the thing. I...

In the very beginning of our relationship, my husband and I knew that we had, had previous relationships, but we never got so much in depth with discussing it. He's never been married, and was a virgin as he claimed and I had been married, and divorced. So we married, and eventually as time went...

Hi, I've been married for only a few short months, but we've been together for several years. We are both very open minded sexually and are looking to expand our sexuality not only with each other, but as individuals, which I am comfortable with. However... My husband is definetely an 'alpha...

I would welcome any answers that could be backed up with science and communication concepts. My wife and I are big fans of Gottman's books and we are pretty analytical with things. To the point, my wife has consistently shared things with me that are disturbing to me. A movie she likes, a song...

I know this comes up a lot, but I feel tormented with my racing thoughts and greatly appreciate any feedback since I'm really struggling with this. I thank you in advance. Here's the background. I'm a 30 year old male and have been dating my fiancée for almost 3 years and we've been living...