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  1. Overwhelmed and feeling stuck

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    This is my story. I met my husband when I was 17 online in a Christian chat room, I was in California and he lived in Wisconsin. We chatted a lot at first, then it became daily. We talked for hours and would stay up all night about everything and anything. Meanwhile I was in high school...
  2. Haven't Forgotten The Kind Help!

    General Relationship Discussion
    To Everyone I Have Not Replied To, I am still processing everything you have said to me to help me in my situation. I've responded to some, others require more thought on my end before I respond back. I feel very overwhelmed right now and it's not due to what everyone has said to me. It's just...
  3. Help... I'm too distant and I dont know how to change

    General Relationship Discussion
    For the last few years, my husband and I have argued more and more often. He feels like I'm not supportive enough. I do recognize that I often shut down my emotions, but even when I catch myself putting up walls, I don't know how to take them down. We argue, then I feel horrible, then I feel...
  4. It's been a bad day.

    General Relationship Discussion
    The truth is I don't think I am capable of having a relationship. I want one, I have one currently, and I think I am happy, most of the time. But then, in moments like these, I doubt everything, and just want to call it quits. I do this all the time, my therapist calls it self sabotage. He's...
  5. Living a Lie

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am so tired of pretending that my marriage isn't the failure that it actually is. My husband and I were together for 4 1/2 years before we got married (July 09). I have no idea why we got married. It was this fairy tale idea that marriage would make our relationship stronger and better. It...
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