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  1. How to accept that he loves someone else.. (sorry it is so long)

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am at a loss.. It all started around August of 2019, my husband had changed the settings in his phone and was talking to a female coworker through Whats App. When I found out, I confronted him and we had a whole blow up about it and he told me that it was absolutely nothing to worry about. She...
  2. No contact letter?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband has been conducting an emotional affair with his ex-girlfriend. It finished about 3 months ago (he finally decided he wanted to stay married to me), but they've talked 3-4 times since then. I found out about a week ago. Three months ago, he told her "don't call me unless it's an...
  3. Nearly 40 years of marriage....

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    But I am in love with another woman. I know not unique. Likely boring for this group But truly stressful for me! I am calm and uneventful in my life and at the top of my career in a stressful profession. She is Type A (is there AAA?) and at the top of her also stressful career. She travels...
  4. Married to an Asexual man....

    Sex in Marriage
    :frown2: I really do not know where to start. I am a 50 year old, highly sexual woman who has found she married an asexual man. We met 4 years ago. We had common interests. I'd been celibate, for about 3 years, not because I didn't want sex, but because I wanted sex in a relationship, not...
  5. LONG SORRY! 37 yr marriage n he says "he loves us both"

    General Relationship Discussion
    Wow guess I have to start from the ginning to get to the crux of this issue. I started dating him when I was 19. He is 14 yrs older. The night he first told me he loved me, he left to date another woman. That hurt...alot...and I guess it should have warned me then to give up. I didn't. He...
  6. Confused....

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Background story: My wife and i have been married for 10 years. we married young i was 21 and she was 25. Been through military life, deployments and now have 2 children together and I also raised her daughter which was 5 when i met her (now 15). I cheated on my wife (then girlfriend) in the...
  7. he left me for OW after knowing her 2 months, devastated

    Coping with Infidelity
    It's been nearly 3 weeks now since he walked out of our nine and 1/2 year relationship to move in with the OW. He'd known her, and had been carrying on with her, for 2 months. The week, I began to suspect, I did what many of us do - looked through the emails, phone calls, bank accounts. I went...
  8. Am I really paranoid or intuitive?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband has expressed an innocent enough sort of "respect" and "admiration" for this woman at our children's school a couple of years ago. Since then our families have become closer. Although I don't think she wants to necessarily be with my husband, I do think that she has a certain way of...
  9. I am OW, wife keeps trying to call me..

    Coping with Infidelity
    It has been three months since I last had contact with her husband and it was to confirm we are over and done. He has not contacted me in any way. I have no intention of ever making contact with him again. Ever. I regret my actions, and will live with my guilt for the rest of my life. I had...
  10. Lost in my Mind

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I need some advice. Please dont be mean. Ive had enough in the past years to last me a lifetime, but please the truth. Especially if you have been where i am. My husband and i have been separated for 2 yrs now. After about 6 months of his being gone we decided to reconcile and move back in...
  11. But what about the child???? Dilemma!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    OK... you've heard it before but here goes. I find this dilemma unbearable and quite incredible as well. Married 25 years. There has never been great passion or intimacy, but it was ok. There's been none whatsoever in a very long time. Due to the lack of any intimacy and affection, I did...
  12. End of 9 years?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Me and my husband got married 6 years ago, we've been together for 9. While we got along well, there were issues with communication, so we never discussed issues in our relationship, they always got put aside (but not resolved). Over the years our sex life went down hill, we would have sex once...
  13. After 3 years, I'm still not over him.

    Coping with Infidelity
    First of all I’ll start by saying this is going to be relatively long, but after 3 years, I just don’t know what else to do, where else to turn. I'll admit I am the other woman, and I know that won't win me any friends on here. But I am hoping to hear from anyone who may have been in a simlar...
  14. Hung Up on The Other Woman

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband told me he wanted a divorce one day, and about two weeks later he began having an affair. Although he was honest about wanting to end our relationship, he consistently denied the affair. After confronting him with overwhelming evidence 6 weeks later he admitted to their...
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