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  1. Seriously Need Advice

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'll start from the beginning. I met my husband at 16, had a kid and got married at 19. He has never treated me good but I was infatuated with him when we were younger. When I say he hasn't treated me good, I mean he degrades me and has been physically violent before, not to mention he drinks...
  2. Looking for Clarity

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi All, Im Back. Just find out that my wife was cheating on me with one of her male friend from work. You can read my story from below link. So last week I find one year old pictures from her old...
  3. An interesting visit with OMs' wife

    Coping with Infidelity
    I decided to pay a visit to the wife of my wifes' AP. The possibility exists that my daughter will be spending time with him in the future, so I wanted to talk to her about her safety around him. Didn't expect her to tell me if he was a molester, but sometimes you can get a clue from someones'...
  4. Am I Creating Problems or Are Problems Real?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'm a 29 year old woman who's been dating a 38 year old man for the past 3 years. He's older than me so he wants to start a family pretty soon. I don't think I'm ready for that. I don't think kids are cute. Everyone assures me that my biological clock will go off at some point and I will want...
  5. should I let her meet the OM?

    Coping with Infidelity
    OK here goes! Have been with partner for 16 years and we have 3 kids, but are not married. I recently found out my partner had an affair with one of my friends. I discovered them whilst we were all on holiday with our kids and after the initial explosion of finding out, I slowly began to piece...