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  1. Trying To Get Her There

    Sex in Marriage
    I have a unique situation I doubt any man would ever complain about. A little background I've been married for 35 years and am 55 years old. Yes, I was married young to the love of my life- who still is! We have 4 kids 2 sons and 2 daughters the oldest 3 are out of college and on their own with...
  2. Wife's affair

    Self-Help Marriage & Relationship Programs
    Seven years ago my wife had an affair with a co-worker. Needless to say I was/am devastated and went through all the "typical" thoughts and questions described by most men on this site. With much effort on both of our parts, we have stayed together and my wife says that she feels our marriage...
  3. Clit stimulations feels like tickling

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I posed a question yesterday & have been getting a lot of very insightful responses, which leads to my next question (which is more for the ladies): I am in my mid/late 20's, have been sexually active since I was 21, and have never orgasmed. And it's not like I haven't tried!!! Good lord, I've...
  4. First ever orgasm - wife can't remember!

    Sex in Marriage
    Recently I asked my wife (35) how old she was when she first had an orgasm to which she responded that she cannot remember. I replied with surprise and left it at that. She was 18 when we met and had only had 1 sexual partner before me. My question is to the ladies out there - do you remember...
  5. My story (orgasmless marriage)

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    The title is just the tip of an iceberg, but it tells a lot imo. I got married at 18 to my ex, who was 25yo at that time. We met in Internet, had LD relationship and no intercourse before marriage (religious reasons). I didn't find him attractive at first but he was funny and (supposedly)...
  6. Question for the Ladies wrt Orgasm difficulties...

    The Ladies' Lounge
    The wifey and I have been married for 16 years and been together for 21. When we met, I had a little experience sexually, and she had pretty much 0 experience. She's always had trouble climaxing (I'd say she usually gets it 2/3 of the time), never had multiple O's (she gets mega sensitive when...
  7. Absent orgasms

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife and I have been married for just over 5 years now. We have a 4 year old son. Life is pretty busy with my wife and I running a business and I also work full time shift work. I'm pretty sure I've only ever given her two orgasms in our time together. I know, pretty woeful. It was never...
  8. Can't get husband off

    Sex in Marriage
    I'm 28 and have been married for 2 years. My husband and I used to have a great sex life but lately it's been stressing me out. We have sex once or twice a week and it always ends with him rubbing it to get off. I've asked him about it and he says that he just can't get there sometimes. I'm...
  9. Vibrators, Am I not enough?

    Sex in Marriage
    She's gorgeous and insatiable getting off daily... often multiple times a day. Married 6 months and terrific sex life. So.... why does she continue to use vibrators and get off daily? When together I'm more than happy to satisfy her appetite for multiple O's whether it's Oral, using the...
  10. Married 25 years and she still can't orgasm

    Sex in Marriage
    OK so I am new at this my first post ever about anything. Wife and I have been married 25 years this April 2014. 3 kids 9, 10 and 11. We married very young I am 44 and she is 46. I would say that we are both above average in looks and both look a lot younger than we are (she is way above...
  11. Passing Out During Orgasm

    General Relationship Discussion
    In high school, I hooked up with the friend who eventually took my virginity. Before we actually had sex there was plenty of foreplay in the sessions leading up to the day. On one occasion, which I will never forget, she passed out after having a really strong orgasm. I was fingering her - the...
  12. New stage in my life.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Maybe longer but advice, thoughts are welcome: So after all my drama with my daughter, she's moved out and after 3 years I've excepted it. Long time I know, she just really broke my heart. Never loved anyone as much as her. Maybe we will reconnect once she's 18 but right now it's too hard. So...
  13. My man is faking orgasm

    Sex in Marriage
    So I've been reading about this all of a sudden in several different places. Men not being able to get it on because they whack off too much to porn. It's called porn induced erectile dysfunction and is becoming one of the largest causes of ED for younger men. Basically it's like listening to...
  14. Low sex drive wife not interested in orgasms

    Sex in Marriage
    This is my first time postiing and hoping to gain some insight into my wife, my marriage and my marital issues. I am very happily married man for over 15 years. Happy in every aspect of marriage except for sex. I was always the more sexually adventerous of the two and a higher sex drive but...
  15. Inability to finish

    Sex in Marriage
    My husband and I just got married in October, and at first we had a hard time consumating. It was a problem on my part, I was very fearful of the pain and it took 2 weeks for me to finally get over it. Once we did it the first time, it was amazing and for the next 2 weeks, we didn't have any...
  16. Whose job it is to bring a woman to orgasm during sex? Him or her? (Sponsored Thread)

    Sex in Marriage
    Most women aren’t able to have a vaginal orgasm during intercourse. This means it’s up to him or her to manually stimulate her clitoris to make sure she has an orgasm. Unfortunately once intercourse starts, there’s too much going on and not enough coordination or continued focus for him or her...
  17. Young couple-Man not interested in making sex good for woman.

    Sex in Marriage
    My husband and I are very young, and we are new parents. Btu the baby isn't the problem. My husband isn't interested in making sex good for me. He doesn't even try. I wish I knew what the problem is? HOw can I make him interested? This isn't a problem we should b having at this age. Not to...
  18. "Slow Sex" and/or sexual practices

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi everyone, I recently came across a book on Amazon called "Slow Sex". I liek what the author is saying on youtube as well. But there are other practices in a similar vein... My wife isn't really into the meditative sexual practices... ... but now she is working towards allowing pleasure to...
  19. Ladies please help(answer)

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife and I got married 2 years back, we both love each other crazily. We are very romantic and are also very attracted to each other sexually. But sometimes(60%) I face this problem, when I am doing foreplay my wife gets really wet and she moans a lot, this is almost in like 3-5 mins, I have...
  20. Sex feels like nothing and it's a chore

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi Im new to this whole thing and I'm at the end of my rope with sex and I need help. My husband and I have been together for 5 years and I love him very much we have a 3 year old son buuuuuttttt the sex is terrible. He has a very high sex drive and I used to have a decent sex drive before my...
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