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  1. Should I ask wife if she is having affair, or find out more first ?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Brief history: My wife of 16 years frequently goes out to California to visit her sisters and help with her aging father. At least that is what I am told, and I believe it 99% of the time. There are some possible signals though that the she is either having a fling / affair with old boyfriends...
  2. Pictures of Previous Relationships

    General Relationship Discussion
    Should your spouse keep pictures of previous relationships? In terms of workable arrangments that are successful, I am thinking I would like to hear from members with strong, long term first marriages (15+ years).