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  1. He doesn't wanna have sex, but I found a lube?!

    Sex in Marriage
    So, I joined this forum because there isn't everything OK with my marriage right. My husband doesn't want to have sex with me, he doesn't want to sleep with me - he mostly spends nights on a sofa instead comming to bed. But just yesterday when going through things a bit I found a lube hidden...
  2. Newlywed and sexless

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Ok I'm looking to see if anyone else is in a similar situation. I've turned to the internet because I really do not have anyone in a 3rd party position that I can look to. My new husband and I have been together for almost 6 years. We dated for 4, engaged for 1.5, and recently married in the...
  3. Sexual Desert: obese husband

    Sex in Marriage
    My husband and I have been married for 2 years and dated for 6 years before that. We started having sex a year after dating. We haven't had sex in 5 months now, & I've been going crazy over it for the past 3!! I don't know how much longer I can take!!! First off, some background: I (the wife)...
  4. I'm losing my mind

    The Men's Clubhouse
    I have been married for 17 years and with my wife for 22. We have both over the years helped each other reach our goals of going to school, house purchases and vacations. Getting pregnant was easy once we decided to conceive. 3 beautiful kids later and all intimacy has vanished. I still...
  5. Nearly 40 years of marriage....

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    But I am in love with another woman. I know not unique. Likely boring for this group But truly stressful for me! I am calm and uneventful in my life and at the top of my career in a stressful profession. She is Type A (is there AAA?) and at the top of her also stressful career. She travels...
  6. HELP! I really need advice!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello, My name is Kelly. I am going through a very unique and stressful situation. Let me start out with a little backstory. My husbands name is Bill. Bill and I dated for 2 years before getting married. I wanted to remain a virgin until I was married, so for that reason, Bill and I were never...
  7. Performance anxiety ruining marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I have an issue that I hope someone can give advice on or relate. My wife and I (both 26) have been together since we were 17. Initially, I never had any issues with erections. We didn't have sex right away cause we were so young, but we would fool around and do other things and never...
  8. No communicating, no sex, no fun.

    Sex in Marriage
    Ok Im ganna try to make it short and to the point. 1) my husband and I dont communicate at all. I'll call him and he will say "what do you want" I'll text him and he wont respond, maybe i'll get 2 word response. 2) I have a son with a previous relationship and my husband is a...
  9. Sexless Marriage - Newlyweds

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi All, I'm in a big dilemma. Im 29 years old, married for exactly one year now. I met my husband in my apartment complex, he was my neighbour. We dated for 3 years before tying the knot in Jan 2014. We never had pre-marital sex, as I insisted on waiting till we get married. We did fool around...
  10. Newlywed= No Sex?

    Sex in Marriage
    Hey everyone, I just now created an account mainly because I've only been married for 2 1/2 months and already seeing some issues. I am 21 and she is 20. Since we moved in together over 2 months ago we have probably only had sex maybe 5 or 6 times..? Before we tied the knot we were very sexually...
  11. Why does sex have to stop in a marraige?

    Sex in Marriage
    I know it's been asked a million times, but really think about it. Why does sex have to stop when you're married? When I was dating my wife, I couldn't keep my hands off of her. We had sex at least 3 times a day every day. Sometimes, we would purposely have quickies during our lunch break. But...
  12. Is this it?

    Sex in Marriage
    I found this site tonight, while seeking ideas to improve the sex life in my marriage. I met my husband at 18. He was in his early 20's. He was an amazing lover. I admit...as the kids came one after another barely two years apart...I was often tired. And he worked night shift and thought...
  13. Sex Nazi; No O for you!

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi All, I'm new here. Glad I found this active forum. It's the most action I've seen in years, haha! Seriously though, I'm broken hearted and mad as hell. I'm 56 and have been married 27 years. We had problems from the beginning. It wasn't an ideal situation for either of us, both married...
  14. How should I tell her I want a divorce

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Here is my story, been married for 22 years, plus 6 of dating, I am 46 now. for the last three years I have stopped feeling love for my wife, we stopped having sex almost after our daughter was born 9 years ago. The only four or five pecker kisses that we give each other a day, I do not feel...
  15. No sex, but he looks at porn and wants us to be swingers...

    Sex in Marriage
    This is my first post here, and my reason for registering. I need advice before I lose my mind entirely. My husband and I were married in December. Our relationship has been a fast moving and very intense one. In my defense, before we started dating, we had known each other for over 10 years...
  16. Advice please (men and women)!

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Here my issue is the shortest form possible: My wife and I have been married for 4 years and together for 5. Shes 14 years older than me and she has an 18 year old daughter still living it home (graduated high school, no job yet). The issue is: For the past 10 months my wife has been totally...
  17. Manipulative Behavior

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'm trying to decide what to do about my wife's behavior? I've struggled for years with our relationship, always seeming to be in the doghouse or in trouble with her, and no matter what never seeming to meet the ever moving mark. Finally, a friend suggested I read up on passive-aggressive...
  18. Age 27: No Sex Drive, Request help

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I will try to make this short and sweet, as i don't want to make a autobiography novel, as I also tend to be A.D.D when it comes to these discussions. But I do need to be detailed as the correct course of action would still be gray. Thoughts about her: 1) 22: My wife is beautiful...
  19. Feel like roommates... After only 3 years.

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi. Okay, I've been married for 3 1/2 years. I'm 30 years old and so is my husband. I feel like we're roommates. We sleep in separate rooms and have completely opposite schedules. We sleep in separate rooms because he snores so loudly, I literally can't sleep. He has sleep apnea, but refuses to...
  20. married, mostly happy.... confused

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'm a healthy 58 year old with the libido of a man half my age. I love my wife of 36 years but I get NO SEX. Really, in three years it's been like zero. Other women find me attractive, but I'm not vain about that. I'm successful, a great provider and always attentive. Recently, thanks to...
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