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  1. Recently married and waited for marriage to have sex. After wedding no sex

    Sex in Marriage
    ** I'm 42 and she is 41- No health issues for us both. Hi, I'm recently married in May of this year. i'm American Caucasian and my wife is Chinese Indonesian. We met online and I traveled twice to Indonesia to spend time with her before we decided to bring her here to the USA. During our...
  2. Feel like roommates... After only 3 years.

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi. Okay, I've been married for 3 1/2 years. I'm 30 years old and so is my husband. I feel like we're roommates. We sleep in separate rooms and have completely opposite schedules. We sleep in separate rooms because he snores so loudly, I literally can't sleep. He has sleep apnea, but refuses to...
  3. How do help my wife reconnect emotionally

    General Relationship Discussion
    My story is similar to many other stories here. Married for 27 years with two grown children. And although it will not sound like it after you read this, we have had a ‘great’ marriage with lots of love, hugging, etc. The kids occupied much of our free time and until we became empty nesters...
  4. The DMZ of SEX!!!

    Sex in Marriage
    I know I can not be the only husband out there that feels like he has to enter a battlefield/minefield/barbed-wire/thorns/ect... to get sex from the wife. I'm always the initiator and I'm tired of it. I stopped trying about 6 months ago and she seems to be semi-fine with that meaning she is...
  5. Husband wants kink and not sex

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi everyone! This is my first post on here so hopefully I can communicate everything well enough. My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for 4 of them. He is 29 and I am 27. We have never really had a sex life. He had sexual partners before me but our first time having sex...
  6. Why can't I be intimate with my H?

    Sex in Marriage
    Novel: I love my husband and he loves and cares about me more than any other person. Some background: We were surprised to find out before we got engaged (dated 3 years prior so it was coming no matter what) that we were expecting a baby. He seemed to have liked this scenario a bit more than...