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  1. Just When I Thought I Had This Licked...

    Life After Divorce
    NO CONTACT. I'm the poster boy. No response to an email from my EWW several months ago that just said "Hi." Nothing. So here I am tooling along 11 months after DDay feeling pretty good. I think I've even gone a whole day without thinking for a moment about catching her in the park having...
  2. My Brother Told Me This Would Happen...

    Life After Divorce
    Right at about 9 months ago she left me for her boss and the grieving process started. Fast forward to this morning(not nearly fast enough.) For all you JFO's. It does get better. A lot better. My brother told me about 4 months ago... He said. "I'm telling you, one morning, you will wake...
  3. Then Suddenly, Out of The Blue...

    Life After Divorce
    Strictly NC since my now EWW moved out after having an affair with her boss late last fall that she still denies. She knows that I know the truth but denies to all that are not privy to the proof I hold. She told me she "wasn't in love with me anymore" upon her departure. NC has been a huge...
  4. No contact rule & same apartment?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello, My husband dropped the bomb 2 days ago that he wants to separate. He said that I shouldn't fight for him and he doesn't see a chance for us to work together again. He packed some stuff and slept at a friend's. After asking how he would define the future (apartment, divorce, finances...
  5. Ex is depressed

    General Relationship Discussion
    had an ex gf reach out to me saying she's depressed... We were together for like a 1.5 years. Dumped her because I was bending over backwards for her, but she'd call me out on mistakes or perceived slights and insinuate I didn't care about her despite everything I was doing for relationship...
  6. No contact letter?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband has been conducting an emotional affair with his ex-girlfriend. It finished about 3 months ago (he finally decided he wanted to stay married to me), but they've talked 3-4 times since then. I found out about a week ago. Three months ago, he told her "don't call me unless it's an...
  7. I'm Broken

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hiya! I've been married for 19 months to an American guy who I thought was the greatest guy ever (and a part of me still does). I'm British and have been back in the UK for over a month after a huge relationship breakdown in the states. We met 3.5 years ago through mutual friends and at the...
  8. Thing seem to be improving... I think?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Short recap: Wife:30 Me:32 Together: 14 yrs Married: 10yrs Separated: 1yr A couple years ago I had an EA. In the process of my wife asking for details she found out that I had been emotionally wayward most of our relationship (unfaithful thoughts, porn addiction). My wife was my first...
  9. Dumped, NC, LC and want to reconcile. With little baby. Help me please!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi everybody. First, sorry for my bad english. I'd really appreciate some advice on my case. And I promise I'll update it here. Long story short: We met very young at college and started dating 15 years ago, whith no pause. It was very good, like heaven to me. He sometimes asked to take a break...
  10. No Contact?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I wrote last time when I found out my husband was having an affair. After 4 days of hell (for me) I told him if he wants to keep up seeing her he is to move out, which he did the same day. It's been 2 weeks. About a week ago he told me he was done with her and will take a week to think things...
  11. what are my chances?

    Reconciliation
    I'm going to try to summarize as much as possible to get to my point. Been together nearly 5 years. He was completely devoted to me and deeply in love with me. It took me longer to feel as deeply as he did, my love grew more slowly but my love did indeed grow. I was more cautious as I had been...
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