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  1. Am I just crazy?! Or does my husband not appreciate me?

    General Relationship Discussion
    So, my husband and I have been together for 7 years, married 3 ish. Our relationship has been based upon his infidelity and lack of communication. He isn't romantic, hes lazy, ad only wants to do what he wants to do with no concern over anyone else. He was never like this before. About a year...
  2. Considering Trial Separation to Save Marriage - Has this worked for anyone?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
  3. My wife is emotionally numb, Wants a separation and likes another guy...HELP PLZ

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I posted this earlier today, but as I was re-reading it, I realized it was not proof read very well at all. I cannot seem to delete the other post... I want to start this off with this. I am looking for honest help, I am not looking for short answers that do not provide any substance or...
  4. Please help me find a way

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I want this to start off first and foremost that I am not looking for anyone to judge another’s answers. I am about to unveil a tremendous amount of information and I want honest solutions rather than replies arguing with one another or simply just saying "it is not worth it". My Wife...
  5. My husband is controlling me - feel like a prisoner

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I need advice: Am I a bad person when my deep desire is to live on my own, to have a job and my own apartment, my own life, my own rules, finally friends again, social live and some fun in my life? Here is my story: How are you doing? I need help, I need clarity and I need advice. I* have been...
  6. I'm so lost.

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    The day I met my wife she was the most amazing person I've ever met, a smile that could light up a room, always laughing, life Of the party. She did have some problems like randomly crying and suicidal thoughts. But things have changed and I don't know what to do anymore. My wife has become so...
  7. Trying to find the strength to move on

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
  8. Advice from men … what is happening in my marriage if I still have one

    The Men's Clubhouse
    My husband is Spanish and has a taste for drama but this time he went too far… This is an addition to my other thread. http:// We’ve been together 3 years and married 4. He moved to my...
  9. Need a release...Advice?

    Sex in Marriage
    So me and my now fiancé have been together for three years. He really is the love of my life, my soul mate...everything. There is, however one problem...the sex. There is an age difference, which honestly has never interfered with anything between us except sexually. I stay ready for sex nearly...
  10. starting too think there is no future for us.

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been married for about 2 months. This has been the worse two months of my life. Every since the day I said I do he has changed for the worse. Some how everything I do easily bothers him. I could try to hold his hand, kiss him, or play his hair and it comes a huge problem. He use to be...
  11. Looking for advise, Im so confused!

    General Relationship Discussion
    I first want to say thank you for looking &/or giving me words of wisdom! We have been married for 5 years. I have been unhappy in my marriage for several years, now I have asked for a separation, in hopes to save our marriage. I guess the best way to start is at the beginning, I wanted...
  12. Am I a doormat? Is my marriage beyond hope?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been struggling now for some time wondering if this is the end of my marriage. And I'm too embarrassed for myself and my husband to talk about it with my girlfriends. So I'm stuck. Feedback, please!! Here's the situation: Met my husband abroad. He immigrated to be with me. We have been...
  13. Husband and I are so different!

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've just joined this forum as I have no-one I can talk to and I feel very alone right now. I don't like complaining about my relationship to friends or family. So, let's start... I would so love some advice, I don't know what to do. First off, I love my husband. BUT at the moment I am...
  14. Wondering will he change?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Well me and my husband have been married for two and a half years. It was good in the begining then he started to talk to his ex girlfriend and telling her he loved her and missed her. Well we seperated for awhile. We got back together mostly because of our daughter being born while we were...
  15. A question for the women...

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Ladies, I would like some input please. My wife has a nasty habit of spending the entire day flirting, touching me and turning me on. and after the whole day of "foreplay" she just shuts down and says "not tonight"... she does this often... far more often then she satisfies me, i think it is...
  16. Wife Falling out of Love

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married to my wife for 8 years. We have 4 beautiful kids. However, a week and a half ago, my wife told me that she is confused and has fallen out of love with me. I was devastated to hear that statement because she means the world to me. I believe I am mostly at fault because I...