moving out

Guys I need some advice. I have messed up, and I have been for years. I'll try to make a long story short. Some background: I'm 35, so is my wife. We met in high school, but started dating about a year later. Within a year she's pregnant, and I go into "good guy" mode and we get married...

Hi, My husband just moved to an apartment and I am staying in the house with my 16 year old son. Husband moved primary items, but we have a house full of "things" which he still uses, i.e. tools in garage. He said he would like to come over on Saturday's and just "hang out". He said this way he...

I recently met with a financial advisor who advised me that if I want to be independent I should leave my home. I have been married for 24 years and have two grown children. My husband has been lying about our finances the whole time, has gotten us into serious debt, has had his family bail...

Me 30, wife 27, OM 53!! no kids My wife of 4.5 years has been, to my complete shock, having an affair for between 2 to 4 months. I confronted her 6 days ago after detecting something was a miss in the last few weeks. She admitted and then left and stayed with OM. We have met twice...

I no I should have got to no my husband more before we got married in one week, but we made it to two years plus. He did not have his own place or never has for this matter, I thought his his bank account read 5 digits that he had financial control of his life!....... Okay my husband and I have...

Hello everyone, I have been lurking on this site for a week now - and I just want to thank everyone for having the courage to share their stories, some have been a lifeline to me in my darkest hours. Soooo, May 3, 2012 my Love of 6 years came home from Vegas - and I immediately knew something...

Hi I have done a lot of research already my wife has bad feelings towards me I know whining crying and bagging does not work. I spend entire weekend crying like a baby after our last talk because I really love her and I want her back! right now but she told me she wants to move out anyway and...

Hello - Been married 18 years to a very depressed, pot-addicted man. I shut off from him emotionally/physically many, many years ago and have made the step in January of separation and trying to move out. He does not accept that this is happening and has been extremely emotional/volatile. We...

i have been married for almost 5 years and although our marriage was a rushed one (we found out that she was going to have a baby during the week that we were taking a "breather" from our 3 month relationship (dating)), i fell in love in the subsequent years. we had previously discussed a mutual...

ive been married for 10 years now, and we seem to have lost the spark, and not to mention intimacy. we are now like strangers. i think even strangers are more cordial and nice to each other. we barely manage speaking 5 sentences the whole day. we have 2 kids, 5 and 3. and i've been thinking of...