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  1. Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My life has thrown me against the wall more than once. I want to heal but I find it so hard. After my marriage I am unable to move forward, unable to love someone who is available and when they get attached I find any and all reasons to leave. To make matter worse I was taken advantage of about...
  2. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My husband of 6 years decided he was no longer happy with me and wants a divorce. We have a 2 year old and 4 year old girls together. I begged him to reconsider and try counseling but he said so cold heartedly he doesn't want the marriage any more. No infidelity on either part that I know of...
  3. General Relationship Discussion
    Last time I posted on here was Halloween weekend and this forum saved me that night. I wish you could all follow me around in real life. The main theme was to RUN and LEAVE and I agree BUT I know I may catch heat for still being here but the last two weeks have been harder than anything I have...
  4. The Men's Clubhouse
    Guys I need some advice. I have messed up, and I have been for years. I'll try to make a long story short. Some background: I'm 35, so is my wife. We met in high school, but started dating about a year later. Within a year she's pregnant, and I go into "good guy" mode and we get married...
  5. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Well guys, I'm in somewhat of a train wreck type of situation. Married 6 years, marriage failed and now divorcing. I (husband) filed 2 months ago because i could no longer deal with it all and because she personally does not have the resources and means to. Now she works and can get on her own...
  6. Life After Divorce
    Divorced almost 3 yrs now and had my vasectomy last week Friday. I have to say I feel grrrreat! Interestingly the hardest part was not feeling anything but suddenly smelling burning flesh and seeing smoke in the operating room while "Dr. Kutzyernutzov" was snipping my lines. I do have to say I...
  7. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am newly separated < 3 weeks. A little about what led it it.... Over the last two years my wife has had several emotional and physical affairs. Allot of lying on her part and ups and downs in our marriage. In Sept I had a one time affair myself. 2 weeks ago during a time i though we were...
  8. Coping with Infidelity
    My boyfriend of 5 years always put me on a pedestal, he knew that I had been burned in the past- and always did everything he could to put my mind at ease... I found him in a relationship with another girl at the beginning of this month. At first he apologized profusely, cried like a child, and...
  9. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone and thank you for your replies they are much needed or else I wouldn't be here writing this now... I am 24 years old and married. I decided to leave my husband last October 2011. It is now almost August 2012 and I still haven't proceeded with our divorce. The decision to get...
  10. Coping with Infidelity
    I'm new here. My name is Dale. This is my first post. I'm hoping I can get some advice because I'm at my wit's end. My wife has been repeatedly unfaithful to me many times over the last 6 months. There were other incidents in the years before that but now it is much more frequent. Her...
  11. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I'm brand new here and presently going through a separation towards divorce. I've been married for 21 years this August. My wife initiated the legal separation a couple months ago, even though we've been apart off and on over the last five years.....she's been on the fence.....I've tried...
  12. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I would like to thank everybody on this site who helped me get through my divorce. This is an amazing resource for anybody going through marriage problems. I’d like to give back and share my story. Yesterday my divorce was legally finalized. I was married for 6 years, together with her for 13...
  13. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm 22 years old my wife is 20. we've been married for a year and have a 7 month old son. I admit thoughout our marriage i haven't treated her the best. Lately I've been going out with friends and spending more money than needed to be spent. Our problems started whe she was pregnant and i left...
  14. General Relationship Discussion
    Long story short I've been reading and getting advice here on and off for the past 5 years. My husband is an alcoholic and had emotional and physical affairs. He's been verbally abusive etc etc etc. I'm a SAHM to 2 small children and have essentially been trapped in this marriage (although I...
  15. Coping with Infidelity
    Been married for 14 years. Have three children. About two years ago I discovered that my wife was having an emotional affair via Facebook chat with a guy she had a crush on when she was in high school. She said that it started off innocent enough but got hotter as time went on. After it was...
  16. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    i have been married for almost 5 years and although our marriage was a rushed one (we found out that she was going to have a baby during the week that we were taking a "breather" from our 3 month relationship (dating)), i fell in love in the subsequent years. we had previously discussed a mutual...
  17. General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, I've posted on other threads, but here is a quick rundown of my situation. My wife left me and I'm starting to get ready to move on. I've been hanging out with a group of single parents to let our kids mingle and play and I've really hit it off with another single mother... I was wondering...
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