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  1. Leaving your crossdressing husband....

    General Relationship Discussion
    Last time I posted on here was Halloween weekend and this forum saved me that night. I wish you could all follow me around in real life. The main theme was to RUN and LEAVE and I agree BUT I know I may catch heat for still being here but the last two weeks have been harder than anything I have...
  2. Advice on reconciling or moving on

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Guys I need some advice. I have messed up, and I have been for years. I'll try to make a long story short. Some background: I'm 35, so is my wife. We met in high school, but started dating about a year later. Within a year she's pregnant, and I go into "good guy" mode and we get married...
  3. Divorcing but still cohabiting.....new "friends" in picture

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Well guys, I'm in somewhat of a train wreck type of situation. Married 6 years, marriage failed and now divorcing. I (husband) filed 2 months ago because i could no longer deal with it all and because she personally does not have the resources and means to. Now she works and can get on her own...
  4. 1 Week Post-Vesectomy

    Life After Divorce
    Divorced almost 3 yrs now and had my vasectomy last week Friday. I have to say I feel grrrreat! Interestingly the hardest part was not feeling anything but suddenly smelling burning flesh and seeing smoke in the operating room while "Dr. Kutzyernutzov" was snipping my lines. I do have to say I...
  5. Newly Separated and need help in moving on

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am newly separated < 3 weeks. A little about what led it it.... Over the last two years my wife has had several emotional and physical affairs. Allot of lying on her part and ups and downs in our marriage. In Sept I had a one time affair myself. 2 weeks ago during a time i though we were...
  6. How to "move on"

    Coping with Infidelity
    My boyfriend of 5 years always put me on a pedestal, he knew that I had been burned in the past- and always did everything he could to put my mind at ease... I found him in a relationship with another girl at the beginning of this month. At first he apologized profusely, cried like a child, and...
  7. I'm ready to move on, but I can't. Please Help!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone and thank you for your replies they are much needed or else I wouldn't be here writing this now... I am 24 years old and married. I decided to leave my husband last October 2011. It is now almost August 2012 and I still haven't proceeded with our divorce. The decision to get...
  8. How do you just stop thinking about it?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I'm new here. My name is Dale. This is my first post. I'm hoping I can get some advice because I'm at my wit's end. My wife has been repeatedly unfaithful to me many times over the last 6 months. There were other incidents in the years before that but now it is much more frequent. Her...
  9. Looking for sanity

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I'm brand new here and presently going through a separation towards divorce. I've been married for 21 years this August. My wife initiated the legal separation a couple months ago, even though we've been apart off and on over the last five years.....she's been on the fence.....I've tried...
  10. Divorce Finalization, Moving On

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I would like to thank everybody on this site who helped me get through my divorce. This is an amazing resource for anybody going through marriage problems. I’d like to give back and share my story. Yesterday my divorce was legally finalized. I was married for 6 years, together with her for 13...
  11. My wife doesnt want to be with me anymore.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm 22 years old my wife is 20. we've been married for a year and have a 7 month old son. I admit thoughout our marriage i haven't treated her the best. Lately I've been going out with friends and spending more money than needed to be spent. Our problems started whe she was pregnant and i left...
  12. Used to post about my cheating husband….can't believe where I am now

    General Relationship Discussion
    Long story short I've been reading and getting advice here on and off for the past 5 years. My husband is an alcoholic and had emotional and physical affairs. He's been verbally abusive etc etc etc. I'm a SAHM to 2 small children and have essentially been trapped in this marriage (although I...
  13. She has to check "What if?"

    Coping with Infidelity
    Been married for 14 years. Have three children. About two years ago I discovered that my wife was having an emotional affair via Facebook chat with a guy she had a crush on when she was in high school. She said that it started off innocent enough but got hotter as time went on. After it was...
  14. wife is leaving after 5 years to reconnect with herself....

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    i have been married for almost 5 years and although our marriage was a rushed one (we found out that she was going to have a baby during the week that we were taking a "breather" from our 3 month relationship (dating)), i fell in love in the subsequent years. we had previously discussed a mutual...
  15. can single parents date single parents?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, I've posted on other threads, but here is a quick rundown of my situation. My wife left me and I'm starting to get ready to move on. I've been hanging out with a group of single parents to let our kids mingle and play and I've really hit it off with another single mother... I was wondering...
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