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Hello, Please help. I am currently fighting not to end my current relationship of 5 years. When I met my partner, they were going through a lot emotionally. I did my all to be there for them and support them in anyway. We were students at the time and due to their emotional problems/state did...

The reason for this overly specific question is that I stumbled across this probable troll post from r/AmItheAsshole from last year. The post was about a guy who allegedly took his much younger girlfriend to his late wife's funeral, much to the dismay of his children and his wife's family...

I was married for 7 years, together for 10. We never had children and had our struggles through the marriage. 3 years ago we decided he would leave the state for a few months to get some treatment for an autoimmune disease. He was also depressed and we were hoping a change of scenery would help...

My husband and I have been married for 7 months, and together for 5 years. I just found out that my husband started an emotional affair with a much younger coworker and it became sexual. This affair started 3 weeks after our wedding and has been ongoing for the entire duration of our 7 month...

My life has thrown me against the wall more than once. I want to heal but I find it so hard. After my marriage I am unable to move forward, unable to love someone who is available and when they get attached I find any and all reasons to leave. To make matter worse I was taken advantage of about...

My husband of 6 years decided he was no longer happy with me and wants a divorce. We have a 2 year old and 4 year old girls together. I begged him to reconsider and try counseling but he said so cold heartedly he doesn't want the marriage any more. No infidelity on either part that I know of...

Last time I posted on here was Halloween weekend and this forum saved me that night. I wish you could all follow me around in real life. The main theme was to RUN and LEAVE and I agree BUT I know I may catch heat for still being here but the last two weeks have been harder than anything I have...

Guys I need some advice. I have messed up, and I have been for years. I'll try to make a long story short. Some background: I'm 35, so is my wife. We met in high school, but started dating about a year later. Within a year she's pregnant, and I go into "good guy" mode and we get married...

Well guys, I'm in somewhat of a train wreck type of situation. Married 6 years, marriage failed and now divorcing. I (husband) filed 2 months ago because i could no longer deal with it all and because she personally does not have the resources and means to. Now she works and can get on her own...

Divorced almost 3 yrs now and had my vasectomy last week Friday. I have to say I feel grrrreat! Interestingly the hardest part was not feeling anything but suddenly smelling burning flesh and seeing smoke in the operating room while "Dr. Kutzyernutzov" was snipping my lines. I do have to say I...

I am newly separated < 3 weeks. A little about what led it it.... Over the last two years my wife has had several emotional and physical affairs. Allot of lying on her part and ups and downs in our marriage. In Sept I had a one time affair myself. 2 weeks ago during a time i though we were...

My boyfriend of 5 years always put me on a pedestal, he knew that I had been burned in the past- and always did everything he could to put my mind at ease... I found him in a relationship with another girl at the beginning of this month. At first he apologized profusely, cried like a child, and...

Hi everyone and thank you for your replies they are much needed or else I wouldn't be here writing this now... I am 24 years old and married. I decided to leave my husband last October 2011. It is now almost August 2012 and I still haven't proceeded with our divorce. The decision to get...

I'm new here. My name is Dale. This is my first post. I'm hoping I can get some advice because I'm at my wit's end. My wife has been repeatedly unfaithful to me many times over the last 6 months. There were other incidents in the years before that but now it is much more frequent. Her...

I'm brand new here and presently going through a separation towards divorce. I've been married for 21 years this August. My wife initiated the legal separation a couple months ago, even though we've been apart off and on over the last five years.....she's been on the fence.....I've tried...

I would like to thank everybody on this site who helped me get through my divorce. This is an amazing resource for anybody going through marriage problems. I’d like to give back and share my story. Yesterday my divorce was legally finalized. I was married for 6 years, together with her for 13...

I'm 22 years old my wife is 20. we've been married for a year and have a 7 month old son. I admit thoughout our marriage i haven't treated her the best. Lately I've been going out with friends and spending more money than needed to be spent. Our problems started whe she was pregnant and i left...

Long story short I've been reading and getting advice here on and off for the past 5 years. My husband is an alcoholic and had emotional and physical affairs. He's been verbally abusive etc etc etc. I'm a SAHM to 2 small children and have essentially been trapped in this marriage (although I...

Been married for 14 years. Have three children. About two years ago I discovered that my wife was having an emotional affair via Facebook chat with a guy she had a crush on when she was in high school. She said that it started off innocent enough but got hotter as time went on. After it was...