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  1. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi. I am ending a very toxic marriage to a high-conflict individual. We have been together nearly 15 years, married 11, 2 kids. In this time, I formed relationships with my stbx's huge, warm, loving, accepting family that mean a lot to me. They were supportive during the better part of the...
  2. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi all, My husband and I have separated again (married for 12 years, 2 young children), but are still living together while we sort out finances. I have a couple of posts on TAM about our issues. Quick background - He had an EA 2.5 years ago with a coworker. We separated for three months...
  3. Reconciliation
    Hi. I would love opinions, suggestions, feedback--just not sure how best to proceed with my husband who is still struggling with trying to make it work. He gave me the ISLYBINILWU speech almost a year ago last April. We have been in MC and are both seeing ICs; in fact we found our new MC in...
  4. General Relationship Discussion
    I had a really awful argument with my wife yesterday. While I'm quite certain that "Jill" was attempting to instigate a response from me with sarcasm, mimicking, disregarding my polite request, and disregarding my request to stop talking to me (while I was moving my stuff into another room to...
  5. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I told my husband last night (our 13th wedding anniversary) that I want to separate. He has issues ( you can see my other posts for details). What I need to know now is best way to tell the kids (6 and 11). I do hope that in the end things will work out. We have set the date he will move out...
  6. Sex in Marriage
    Hi there, Have a question ladies. Been married 13 years, together 15 with my wife. Have had our share of problems. Survived an affair she had about 1.5-2 years ago. Made adjustments on my end. Things are better between us. She has become more receptive to my emotions over the past couple...
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