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  1. Separted from wife and now in different countries

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    First off, this might be one of the longest posts. I don't know if I can shorten this without losing context - so Thanks for your patience in reading this. There has to be a context to every situation. Some of them are cultural, age, etc. So I am a South Asian from India - Highly educated...
  2. Mother-in-laws HELP

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi all So I figured I might start a discussion about mother-in-laws. I’ve been having issues with mine for years now, unfortunately she is passive aggressive, gets offended by everything very quickly a control freak and has no respect for boundaries. She lets herself into our house whenever she...
  3. What do I do? MIL issues, Money issues, relationship in tatters.... Too many?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    {Note: Canusa57 says that he accidently deleted his post. I rebuilt it from the quotes of is post in replies in this thread. ~ EleGirl} In 2000, 6 years after we got married, I immigrated to Canada. My wife did not want to move there That unfortunately was not the last time she accused me of...
  4. They said moving in above her mother would destroy us...

    General Relationship Discussion
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  5. Mother in law crossing boundaries

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everyone, I have been having difficulty with my mother in law since the time we got married about 2 years ago, and I would appreciate any advice on how to deal with this. My mother in law, buys us tons of foods (veggies, fruits, random household items) on sale and gives to my hubby when...
  6. Need help: Mother in law situation

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everyone, and hope its a great day for you all! I am here seeking advice regarding a situation. My husband wants to hire my mother in law as domestic help and future nanny, so that I can work full time and make money up to my potential. Now it would sound good to most, except that in the...
  7. Mother in law situation

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hello everyone, and hope its a great day for you all! I am here seeking advice regarding a situation. My husband wants to hire my mother in law as domestic help and future nanny, so that I can work full time and make money up to my potential. Now it would sound good to most, except that in the...
  8. Difficulty getting along with mum in law

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am sure this isn't the first incident of someone not getting along well with their mum in law. The only twist is that I am the husband here. A couple of months ago our mum in law came to stay with us for a few months, I was really excited as this was the first time she'd be staying with us...
  9. In law saddness

    General Relationship Discussion
    Thank you in advance for reading this…I have a complicated in law relationship. I believe my mother in law has for years treated me weird. She has a pattern of contradicting me alone and in group situations. She generally never asks how I am and shows a general disinterest in me. I thought this...
  10. In laws- so sad

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Thank you in advance for reading this…I have a complicated in law relationship. I believe my mother in law has for years treated me weird. She has a pattern of contradicting me alone and in group situations. She generally never asks how I am and shows a general disinterest in me. I thought this...
  11. Problems with the in-laws, please help

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    Lately I have been having some issues with my in-laws. These issues have been going on since I had my kids. I think I'm finally understanding that my mother in law has been taking control and she cant stand not having the control. Since I met my husband she didn't like me, my friend who was then...
  12. Waste of time or should I hold on?

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    I'm 28 and have been married for almost two years. I absolutely love my husband but I'm having a hard time between his mother and his son. Ok, so here's the scoop... first off my husband has full custody of his son because his mother took him out of the country many years ago. He might...
  13. Girlfriend's mother on the verge of homelessness

    General Relationship Discussion
    My girlfriend called me while she was at work, asking if her mother and little sister could live with us. This is completely stressful for me on so many levels. Here's my issues with the situation: - Her mother recently won a settlement and received about $5000, which is completely gone after 2...
  14. Mother in Law issue

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    I didn't really know where else to put this than the family section, just need to kind of unload. When I met my husband, his mother seemed pretty cool, I am from the UK, my husband and his family are from the Netherlands. I got along with her for about 4 weeks. But then we started clashing when...
  15. Incredible Husband : Horrible In-Laws / How to Make it Work

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    Ok if anyone has any advice for me - please share! I am happily married to the love of my life. He is a military man who is kind, honest, hard-working.. and I could go on to use every positive adjective in the book but you get the idea of the picture I'm painting. We have only been married a...
  16. In-Laws

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Horrible In-Law / Incredible Husband - How to Make it Work Ok if anyone has any advice for me - please share! I am happily married to the love of my life. He is a military man who is kind, honest, hard-working.. and I could go on to use every positive adjective in the book but you get the idea...
  17. Family Holidays

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Hi Guys Turning to crowd-sourced knowledge to help me here, I’m at a loss ok so a little back story: I met my dream girl just over 3/4 years ago, last July we got married, we have had ups and downs like most, but dealt well I feel with them, this post however is about a specific problem...
  18. I am just SICK

    Coping with Infidelity
    Surviving HIS mother...Now I'm just sick I am dealing with a very difficult situation, and I could use some help and advice. I posted this about 8 pm yesterday, and things have changed for the worse overnight. It's 6 am where I am, and I have not been to sleep yet. I will add the new...
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