Hello all, Going on 8.5 months into our divorce. We married in June of 2008, so barely 4 years before I served her divorce papers (she knew they were coming for a year before that). No kids. She had a job for 16 years and 'allegedly' got fired the same day that I served her divorce papers...

Well, the bomb was dropped this morning. My wife says she wants to get a mediator and file for legal separation. She says she wants to hold off on divorce but she won't tell me why. You can view our background here (just look at the first post)...