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My husband have filed for a divorce/ a separation. We do not agree. I don’t want it. We’ve been together for 8 years, married for 4.5 years. And have two small children together. We’ve always had a very hard marriage; lots of fights. Daily fights, rarely saw eye to eye. He’s been threatening me...

My wife just told me that about a month ago she had donated to a cause I feel ambivalent about. I said I would have expected her to tell me about it sooner if not discuss it beforehand. She became very upset by this. We have a single family budget and we always discuss (or so I thought) any...

Hello, I'm a writer at Which?, and I'm currently researching divorce and financial settlements for an article in Which? magazine. I'm interested in hearing from women who feel they lost out after the divorce - for example, because pensions weren't shared. Your experience could really help my...

Looking for some unbiased opinions here, please please help!! Husband and I have been living together for about six years, married for almost two of those. I’ve been the primary earner for the last five years, sometimes working two jobs to fill income gaps and cover our expenses, as well as...

So I have an issue with my husband. Ok so he was furloughed from his job so he was scheduled to receive unemployment. I keep asking did he get his card yet that contained it...of course his answer was no until he said he had to get his mail from his mom. So he got his mail and got the card...

{Note: Canusa57 says that he accidently deleted his post. I rebuilt it from the quotes of is post in replies in this thread. ~ EleGirl} In 2000, 6 years after we got married, I immigrated to Canada. My wife did not want to move there That unfortunately was not the last time she accused me of...

I see other posts about people hitting a wall with finances because their spouse or SO can't manage money. I registered specifically to share my experiences on this because maybe someone will find it helpful. It drives me up the wall when people spew "Divorce him/her" right off the bat. I've...

But my husband does. We have been married for 3 years, and my husband is starting to talk about having a joint account. I have several issues with this- mainly, I don't trust my husband with money. Let me explain- it's long, but please bear with me! My hubby is a really good guy, but he just...

Hi, my name is Jacob. I'm going to offer my girlfriend to marry me. The problem is that I do not have enough money to make it memorable. Guys, please donate on PayPal. The amount does not matter whether it's 50 cents or 5 dollars. I want to rent a carriage with horses and drive to her house, as...

Hi! I need advice. My husband is controlling about money. I'm not in agreement. He has taken me off the joint checking account. I only agreed to this to short term to help save money. I also agreed he doesn't have to give me any personal money anymore so it will help pay off a previous bill. But...

Hello, I'm hoping to get some insight on my separation from my husband. We were best friends for 15 years, dated for 6 of those years and married for 1 and a half of those years. I'm only 29, so this situation is all the more devastating to me because I'm losing not just my best friend and...

If you and your spouse were separated (not legally, just moved apart.... divorce will get filed months later once you can establish residency.) And if your spouse changed the password to the online banking on the computer but didn't change the password to the app, that you both have access...

Look. People are different. Your spouse will never likely be exactly like you and you should be thankful for that. I know it would be a pain to be married to myself, no idea how my wife does it. When two people who come together and try to figure this money out, I noticed there are four...

First of all, I love my wife very much. She is the person I want to be with for the rest of my life. BUT, not like this. Since we have been together (9 years), she has never held a job longer than a few months. When we first started dating she was fired from her job, after that she has had a few...

Just thought I would start a thread dedicated to ideas that can help us stretch our dollars further after coming from a much larger income base. These have been some of my adaptations... 1. Invest in a vacuum sealer for when meats are on sale. I havent paid more than 1.99 on boneless, skinless...

My husband and I have been together for about six years. We've had our money problems in the past as he hasn't been able to hold down a full time job for longer than six months since we got married (2 years ago). Initially, it wasn't for lack of trying. He's applied to tons of jobs but hasn't...

I’ll try to keep this short as this is a 13 years saga in the making and to cover it all would be like reading War and Peace. Our problems are the same as everyone else’s just with a twist. The twist doesn’t matter, the long and short of is I want to leave my wife but there are 2 things...