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  1. Still in disbelief........

    Coping with Infidelity
    It's been 5 months since I discovered my WH had an 'affair' 5 years ago :confused: I am a military wife that has been married for 19 years and have been chronically ill for 6 years. The past 6 years have been super stressful for me and I had only recently stopped grieving my life before I got...
  2. Navy Husband is contacting his Ex

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'm married to a man in the Navy. He is set to deploy in 1 month for 7-9 months. I just caught him contacting his ex on snap chat. He forgot to erase the last message of the conversation. It said "hey my wife is gonna be home soon. I wanna talk more. here is my ship email, **********, Gotta go...
  3. Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married to my husband for almost two years, have been together for three. No kids, nothing to split if we were to divorce. We got married pretty young, and I don't necessarily regret it. (He's in the armed forces, we both benefited from the marriage.) Recently, on a trip to my...
  4. My Marriage Has Gone Sour... please help!!

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I met during high school about 6 years ago. He was always the one guy I wanted and thought I could never have. And it stayed like that for years. It wasnt until my senior year that I really saw that we had a chance. He was already in the military when we started dating and 2...
  5. Blended military Family

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    Hello all, new to the site. Looking for answers on the web for personal issues, and stumbled upon this website. Read a couple of threads, and I think this is a great website. I will be visiting more often. My problems... Met this beautiful, wonderful woman while I was in the middle of...
  6. Wife cheated while I was deployed

    Coping with Infidelity
    The title says it all. We were newly weds and i got sent to afghanistan. She moved on base towards the end of my tour and had a PA with a core-men (medic). I had my suspisions but she swore that nothing ever happened. We bought a house and had a child. 2 years later she tells me about it. WTF am...
  7. Opinions on if this marriage is even worth saving?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Ok, So this is not a brief nor simple story to tell, just like many other infidelity stories. My husband and I met when we were in high school, I was 16 he was 17. During our courtship, I was a virgin and very wary about who I was going to lose my virginity to. I had a friend who was...
  8. Husband let a guy friend give him a hand job

    Coping with Infidelity
    I need some serious advice. I was a very independent woman when I met my husband at 30 (educated, financially stable). He was an officer in the military. I wanted to get married, and we met and hit it off! I found him attractive since he was fit and a nice personality, also good with money...
  9. deployed with a dead marriage.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Ok. So, I married my wife in March. Love her to DEATH. We were each other's world, up until about 2 weeks ago. I deployed in April. She seemed to be handling it well; we spoke daily and for a few hours and were SO reluctant to get off the phone. 2 weeks ago, all contact virtually stopped. I have...
  10. thought I was over it

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband cheated on me the entire time we dated. It was a long distance relationship that he had, but had seen her on business. I knew about this woman before hand and was told that she was his ex from where he used to live and it was over before we started dating. I did not find out until a...
  11. How much time should I give him to make up his mind?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'd like to give a little background information. My husband and I got married pretty young by today's standards at the ripe old age of 19. We both shortly after joined the military. We've been lucky enough to be stationed together all along the way. We both have a year apart in deployments...
  12. Military spouse issues

    General Relationship Discussion
    So... this is my first time with this. My wife and I have been married for 7 years and are in what you would call a "situation". I'll do what i can to make this short so bear with me. This is our 2nd deployment together this year; the first one was back on 2006. She has been great for the...
  13. Ripple effects of sexless marriage

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I'm a first time poster here. I am just about to my 20th wedding anniversary. My wife is my friend and I care about her very much. If you met her you would say she is one of the nicest people you ever met. Shortly after getting married, the sex began to wane. I think it was somewhere around...
  14. Life's too short....

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I just celebrated our 4th anniversary. We have been together for almost 9 years. He is a friend of the family and my family LOVES him. I love him too, but since we got married we have experienced a lot of things. I had a high paying job that I had to leave after I was given a...
  15. I cheated...i'm heartbroken.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Like i said. The real kicker my husband is in the military and he was gone for a little less than a month and i cheated. Thing is...before he left...i felt neglected. I did not feel needed. I did not feel wanted. So when he left...it made it so much worse. He had weekends off, that is where i...
  16. Worn out, angy and mistrustful

    Coping with Infidelity
    My military husband and I have been married for about one year. We've been together for 2 before that. He has not been deployed since we've been together. He moved into my home with my 3 children (I've been divorced for 5 years from my 1st husband). The recurring issue I have is with his...
  17. Wife just told me... she thinks she may be falling in love with someone else

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am a military contractor and am deployed to Afghanistan for 1 year. I'm into the contract 3 months. My wife just told me she thinks she may be falling in love with another man and I don't know what to do. I am filled with that horrid mix of hurt and anger. Empty but so very much still in...
  18. I desperately need advice.

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am 22 years old and my boyfriend is 21 and in the military. We have been together for 9 months and though it may not seem like a long time for many, we lived together for 7 of those 9 months and we got along extremely well, everything was great. We've been through a lot together, I had a...
  19. Deployments, Divorce, Desperate

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Today, my husband and I got into an argument over porn. While on his computer looking through music I found some porn that he had recently downloaded. When I confronted him about it he said he was downloading it for a friend. We had many discussions and arguments about these types of issues in...
  20. so confused & hurt

    Coping with Infidelity
    Ok, so this is gonna be a long post! Here goes. . . My bf & I have been together for 2 yrs. We met immediately after my divorce, things progressed pretty quickly between us. After we had been dating for about 4-5 months he told me he was being stationed in another state (military) and asked me...
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