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  1. Considering Divorce or Separation
    A few days ago my husband walked on me and our 5 month old son saying he doesn't think he wants to be married anymore. I'm absolutely shattered. I don't know what to do or where to go. He is in the Army and we are stationed on the other side of the country from any family. I have absolutely no...
  2. General Relationship Discussion
    i posted this as part of my response to another users question, and realized i should just post it as it is: im here because the boy i met and befriended in 2006 and who i fell in love with in 2007 and have remained in love with all these years, and in contact with until 2014 or 2015, he and i...
  3. General Relationship Discussion
    I'm trying to limit advice coming from service members (current or former) or their significant others. No offense intended to all others. But I am a civilian and need the wisdom of those with real life experiences in this particular area. UPDATE AT BOTTOM I want to start by saying that this...
  4. Coping with Infidelity
    It's been 5 months since I discovered my WH had an 'affair' 5 years ago :confused: I am a military wife that has been married for 19 years and have been chronically ill for 6 years. The past 6 years have been super stressful for me and I had only recently stopped grieving my life before I got...
  5. General Relationship Discussion
    I'm married to a man in the Navy. He is set to deploy in 1 month for 7-9 months. I just caught him contacting his ex on snap chat. He forgot to erase the last message of the conversation. It said "hey my wife is gonna be home soon. I wanna talk more. here is my ship email, **********, Gotta go...
  6. Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married to my husband for almost two years, have been together for three. No kids, nothing to split if we were to divorce. We got married pretty young, and I don't necessarily regret it. (He's in the armed forces, we both benefited from the marriage.) Recently, on a trip to my...
  7. General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I met during high school about 6 years ago. He was always the one guy I wanted and thought I could never have. And it stayed like that for years. It wasnt until my senior year that I really saw that we had a chance. He was already in the military when we started dating and 2...
  8. The Family & Parenting Forums
    Hello all, new to the site. Looking for answers on the web for personal issues, and stumbled upon this website. Read a couple of threads, and I think this is a great website. I will be visiting more often. My problems... Met this beautiful, wonderful woman while I was in the middle of...
  9. Coping with Infidelity
    The title says it all. We were newly weds and i got sent to afghanistan. She moved on base towards the end of my tour and had a PA with a core-men (medic). I had my suspisions but she swore that nothing ever happened. We bought a house and had a child. 2 years later she tells me about it. WTF am...
  10. Coping with Infidelity
    Ok, So this is not a brief nor simple story to tell, just like many other infidelity stories. My husband and I met when we were in high school, I was 16 he was 17. During our courtship, I was a virgin and very wary about who I was going to lose my virginity to. I had a friend who was...
  11. Coping with Infidelity
    I need some serious advice. I was a very independent woman when I met my husband at 30 (educated, financially stable). He was an officer in the military. I wanted to get married, and we met and hit it off! I found him attractive since he was fit and a nice personality, also good with money...
  12. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Ok. So, I married my wife in March. Love her to DEATH. We were each other's world, up until about 2 weeks ago. I deployed in April. She seemed to be handling it well; we spoke daily and for a few hours and were SO reluctant to get off the phone. 2 weeks ago, all contact virtually stopped. I have...
  13. Coping with Infidelity
    My husband cheated on me the entire time we dated. It was a long distance relationship that he had, but had seen her on business. I knew about this woman before hand and was told that she was his ex from where he used to live and it was over before we started dating. I did not find out until a...
  14. General Relationship Discussion
    I'd like to give a little background information. My husband and I got married pretty young by today's standards at the ripe old age of 19. We both shortly after joined the military. We've been lucky enough to be stationed together all along the way. We both have a year apart in deployments...
  15. General Relationship Discussion
    So... this is my first time with this. My wife and I have been married for 7 years and are in what you would call a "situation". I'll do what i can to make this short so bear with me. This is our 2nd deployment together this year; the first one was back on 2006. She has been great for the...
  16. Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I'm a first time poster here. I am just about to my 20th wedding anniversary. My wife is my friend and I care about her very much. If you met her you would say she is one of the nicest people you ever met. Shortly after getting married, the sex began to wane. I think it was somewhere around...
  17. Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I just celebrated our 4th anniversary. We have been together for almost 9 years. He is a friend of the family and my family LOVES him. I love him too, but since we got married we have experienced a lot of things. I had a high paying job that I had to leave after I was given a...
  18. General Relationship Discussion
    Like i said. The real kicker my husband is in the military and he was gone for a little less than a month and i cheated. Thing is...before he left...i felt neglected. I did not feel needed. I did not feel wanted. So when he left...it made it so much worse. He had weekends off, that is where i...
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