masturbation

So my husband and I have been married for 15 years - we are very open with our sex life and can get quite kinky. With that being said though, self-pleasure in his eyes is downright wrong and nasty... since day one I have expressed to him the fantasy of watching himself please, while I return the...

My wife and i have been married for 21 years, 3 kids (15,12,9 yrs old). I'm 46, my wife is 45. Both in good health. My wife has been legally blind since 2008. We are both very devoted to each other and have a normal marriage. My wife has had some female issues (bleeding), and had a partial...

My wife in 71; I'm 69. She had an affair probably 25 years ago;; it's long been forgiven and forgotten. But she has (and admit it) she has no libido or interest in sex at all. I've got diabetes, so it is difficult to get an erectioni. The only way I can orgasm with her is if she performs...

I have been watching porn flix since I was 19 (18 years) pretty regularly when I am in relationships and between relationships. I probably watch porn 2-3 times a week to get off, sometimes a little more if I'm not having sex. My question has to do with disclosure. I've never told a single gf...

Sorry for the long story: 48(F) married 23 years 53(M) together 28 years. Have two grown kids in college. To start I have a very happy, loving marriage. I love my husband more than the day we meet and I feel he feels the same, but things have changed about 9 months ago. Last Nov. I was turning...

Sorry for the long story: 48(F) married 23 years 53(M) together 28 years. Have two grown kids in college. To start I have a very happy, loving marriage. I love my husband more than the day we meet and I feel he feels the same, but things have changed about 9 months ago. Last Nov. I was turning...

She's gorgeous and insatiable getting off daily... often multiple times a day. Married 6 months and terrific sex life. So.... why does she continue to use vibrators and get off daily? When together I'm more than happy to satisfy her appetite for multiple O's whether it's Oral, using the...

I am new here, but have an coping strategy that has bothered me for a while. My wife and I had a great sexual relationship early on in marriage 5-7 times a week. Then it went down to 2-3 and now it is 1 time a week for her. I never changed though. In order to cope I started going to strip...

Hello, I have been a long time lurker and I have questions for those sexless marriages: 1. Looking back, do you think you ignored warning signs? 2. Was your parter at one point excited about sex? I ask these questions because I am NOT married but my (ex) boyfriend was very indifferent about...

Just found out that my wife of almost 30 years had a six month affair (which just ended) and a one night stand several years ago. We are separated because she wants to end the marriage (I actually want to try to reconcile). In the meanwhile, I'm trying to take care of my own needs while living...

I have married for 1.5. we have sex once a week but he masturbates everyday, in the shower with his phone, n every possible chance am away from the house he masturbates using his laptop. I don't care what he does it just makes me really ANGRY. We even talked about it and now HE HIDES AND DOES...

I have married for 1.5. we have sex once a week but he masturbates everyday, in the shower with his phone, n every possible chance am away from the house he masturbates using his laptop. I don't care what he does it just makes me really ANGRY. We even talked about it and now HE HIDES AND DOES...

To be horribly blunt about it, I think I don't really know *how* to masturbate. I have a very non-invasive way of taking the edge off, but to use porn as an example... I don't know how to do that and bring myself to orgasm. I don't know my body much at all, or how to touch myself, what is...

My wife and I have been married for just over five years and in a committed relationship together for nearly 10. Both of us are about 30 years old and we do not currently have any children (although we are planning to begin a family in the next 1-2 years). We also work full-time jobs (my wife is...

My apologies. I think I should have posted this here... Hi! I am new here, this is my first post. So, forgive me if I mess this up a bit... I found this forum and read of others who are experiencing or have experienced similar problems. So, I know there are others out there like me. I am...

Hi! I am new here, this is my first post. So, forgive me if I mess this up a bit... I found this forum and read of others who are experiencing or have experienced similar problems. So, I know there are others out there like me. I am looking for some feedback, please! Ideas, suggestions...

hi this is my first post ever and i need some help..... i have been married for 3 months to the most amazing girl, i love her to death and we decided to get married a little early (we're 18). our life overall is good, not perfect, i mean all couples argue sometimes. The major problem in our...