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  1. Betrayed by Masturbation?

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife and i have been married for 21 years, 3 kids (15,12,9 yrs old). I'm 46, my wife is 45. Both in good health. My wife has been legally blind since 2008. We are both very devoted to each other and have a normal marriage. My wife has had some female issues (bleeding), and had a partial...
  2. May be old, but still would like sex

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife in 71; I'm 69. She had an affair probably 25 years ago;; it's long been forgiven and forgotten. But she has (and admit it) she has no libido or interest in sex at all. I've got diabetes, so it is difficult to get an erectioni. The only way I can orgasm with her is if she performs...
  3. porn and relationships -- Do you hide it?

    Sex in Marriage
    I have been watching porn flix since I was 19 (18 years) pretty regularly when I am in relationships and between relationships. I probably watch porn 2-3 times a week to get off, sometimes a little more if I'm not having sex. My question has to do with disclosure. I've never told a single gf...
  4. 23 years Married, Just found out

    General Relationship Discussion
    Sorry for the long story: 48(F) married 23 years 53(M) together 28 years. Have two grown kids in college. To start I have a very happy, loving marriage. I love my husband more than the day we meet and I feel he feels the same, but things have changed about 9 months ago. Last Nov. I was turning...
  5. Need Advise?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Sorry for the long story: 48(F) married 23 years 53(M) together 28 years. Have two grown kids in college. To start I have a very happy, loving marriage. I love my husband more than the day we meet and I feel he feels the same, but things have changed about 9 months ago. Last Nov. I was turning...
  6. Vibrators, Am I not enough?

    Sex in Marriage
    She's gorgeous and insatiable getting off daily... often multiple times a day. Married 6 months and terrific sex life. So.... why does she continue to use vibrators and get off daily? When together I'm more than happy to satisfy her appetite for multiple O's whether it's Oral, using the...
  7. HD/LD relationship survival

    Sex in Marriage
    I am new here, but have an coping strategy that has bothered me for a while. My wife and I had a great sexual relationship early on in marriage 5-7 times a week. Then it went down to 2-3 and now it is 1 time a week for her. I never changed though. In order to cope I started going to strip...
  8. *New Here* Sexless Marriage Warning Signs?

    Sex in Marriage
    Hello, I have been a long time lurker and I have questions for those sexless marriages: 1. Looking back, do you think you ignored warning signs? 2. Was your parter at one point excited about sex? I ask these questions because I am NOT married but my (ex) boyfriend was very indifferent about...
  9. Pornography no longer doing it for me after finding out about wife's affairs

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Just found out that my wife of almost 30 years had a six month affair (which just ended) and a one night stand several years ago. We are separated because she wants to end the marriage (I actually want to try to reconcile). In the meanwhile, I'm trying to take care of my own needs while living...
  10. Emotionally tortured, please help me!

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have married for 1.5. we have sex once a week but he masturbates everyday, in the shower with his phone, n every possible chance am away from the house he masturbates using his laptop. I don't care what he does it just makes me really ANGRY. We even talked about it and now HE HIDES AND DOES...
  11. Emotionally tortured, please help me!

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have married for 1.5. we have sex once a week but he masturbates everyday, in the shower with his phone, n every possible chance am away from the house he masturbates using his laptop. I don't care what he does it just makes me really ANGRY. We even talked about it and now HE HIDES AND DOES...
  12. Help? Female Masturbation

    Sex in Marriage
    To be horribly blunt about it, I think I don't really know *how* to masturbate. I have a very non-invasive way of taking the edge off, but to use porn as an example... I don't know how to do that and bring myself to orgasm. I don't know my body much at all, or how to touch myself, what is...
  13. Encouraging My Wife to Masturbate to Improve Our Sex Lives

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife and I have been married for just over five years and in a committed relationship together for nearly 10. Both of us are about 30 years old and we do not currently have any children (although we are planning to begin a family in the next 1-2 years). We also work full-time jobs (my wife is...
  14. Masturbation over sex?

    Sex in Marriage
    My apologies. I think I should have posted this here... Hi! I am new here, this is my first post. So, forgive me if I mess this up a bit... I found this forum and read of others who are experiencing or have experienced similar problems. So, I know there are others out there like me. I am...
  15. Husband prefers masturbation to sex. Help!

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi! I am new here, this is my first post. So, forgive me if I mess this up a bit... I found this forum and read of others who are experiencing or have experienced similar problems. So, I know there are others out there like me. I am looking for some feedback, please! Ideas, suggestions...
  16. feely feely touchy touchy........

    Sex in Marriage
    hi this is my first post ever and i need some help..... i have been married for 3 months to the most amazing girl, i love her to death and we decided to get married a little early (we're 18). our life overall is good, not perfect, i mean all couples argue sometimes. The major problem in our...
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