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  1. Sex Cycles and Arbitrary Rules

    Sex in Marriage
    I have been married for over 35 years. I love my wife and we have a great life together. My wife is not a very physical person. She likes her space and that's fine, I do too. But the sexual part of our relationship have been driving me nuts especial the rules. Rules: No sex except in the dark...
  2. Hi new in this site needing advice.

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    My name is Maria del mar I'm 60 years old, married whit my husband for 32 years. Well 2 weeks ago he ask me that he wanted me to start sleeping whit other men he said he wanted to be a cuckold that would be so hot for him. I didn't know how to respond to him for this crazy idea of his... so I...
  3. Pros and cons of being legally married?

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey all! I'm in a committed lifelong partnership. We're unmarried but looking into the possibility of legally tying the knot. I'd love to learn from some married individuals the pros and cons of being legally marriage and how being married has helped or hurt your partnership and finances...
  4. First thread, please help me out

    The Men's Clubhouse
    This has turned into a long post. Here's a nutshell version: I do everything that I can to take care of my wife and make things as easy as possible for her, but my sex drive is at 2% and falling. She is actually in bed right now crying because the sex isn't going well (we do have an...
  5. Issues dealing with Partners past

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi Everyone, Hope you are all doing well. I need a little advise if any has any on dealing with a situation, me and my girlfriend got together 7 months ago and have been really happy together, she's told me many times she's not felt like she does with me about anyone else and her friends have...
  6. My [26F] open marriage with my husband [29M] is broken because of his partner [23F]

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm really desperate for advice or help and want honest answers. If my marriage is salvageable, I'll fight tooth and nail to fix it but if it's not please just let know. The background is that I wanted an open relationship with my husband [married in 2014]. I pushed the idea because some of my...
  7. I want to go clubbing again but I'm married

    General Relationship Discussion
    Does clubbing have to stop just because you get married? I feel a bit pathetic but no one knows me on this forum so I guess I can say it how it is. I have no friends, very little family, I'm married and I love my husband but I miss clubbing. I'm sitting here drinking vodka and fruit juice at 5am...
  8. Fighting for My Marriage, with an affair Taken Place

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hey, guys New to these forums, and I really need help. On the 24th, Me and my wife will be married for 6 years and a beautiful 5 year old daughter. 2 months ago she told me, she loves me, but not in love with me. I found out about the affair about a few weeks later. The day she told me she...
  9. Married woman dancing with another man at a club

    General Relationship Discussion
    Is it wrong for a married woman to dance with someone that she has just met at a club, or someone that she knows but isn't married to? And why? The reason being is because I went into a club last night with some friends (aged between 25-30), and a very attractive older woman walked over to my...
  10. The young & Married. Also the young & unsure!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello my name is Gabrielle. I promise to try to keep this short,but looking for a little insight outside of my own trapped mind & my familys oppinions. Im 21 y/o female civilian. Married a 29 y/o military male Before we got married I was cheated on by his ex and others. Even tho he had...
  11. Just a Vent

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello Everyone, I just joined less than an hour ago. I'm happy to be here and will support as many as I can while I'm on here. I'm 37 years old, my husband is 36. We have two small children under 5. He had been cheating on me since my oldest was 6 months old up until I had proof he was...
  12. Married but alone and unappreciated.

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been married for 19 years, 4 children ages; 23, 18, 17, and 9. February 23, 2015 I will complete my BA Health Administration degree. I am currently on disability because I recently had knee surgery and am going through Physical Therapy (PT). I am employed with a rehabilitation center for...
  13. Do you ever fantasize about being single?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Like if you get into a huge argument with your spouse, you're feeling depressed, or just having fun thinking of the idea, have you ever fantasized about being single and being by yourself and just being alone? Or how your life would be if you married someone else, etc. Just interested to see...
  14. sex with others

    Sex in Marriage
    me and my wife have been married for 5 years,both married before also, now we both love sex with each-other but now we took it to another level, having sex with other people, we are swingers, shes brings females home for me and i bring males home for her. the problem is we both love this. we are...
  15. Depressed but doesnt know why? Almost married

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My Fiance and I have been dating for 1 1/2 years. The first year was great and after that there have been two times that he has gotten into a depression mode... I have asked him why? Whats wrong? Why do you feel sad and depressed? And he doesnt know why. He says it has nothing to do with me...
  16. A Problem

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi! I am just looking to see if anybody has been in the situation that I find myself. My husband and I decided to try a different lifestyle with our sex life. I won't say we are an open marriage or totally swingers but it's kind like that. We met a couple that had an open marriage and became...
  17. how do i cope with this pain? any help please?

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    hello and thanks for clicking on my thread first of all and if u can offer any advice i thank you in advance, im new here...ive been married since 2010 now around may 8th, im a couple of months away from my third year of marrige and we already have 2 kids maybe one more on the way. i remember...
  18. Is it over??

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I have been married 23 years. We have both been unhappy for alot of the marriage. After 12 years she came to me and we almost separated, but worked it out. I was unhappy as well, but when she came to me, I begged to try and we did. It was not long before I was unhappy but did not say...
  19. Quitting porn addiction

    Relationships and Addiction
    Hi, I have a problem. I am married a couple of years back and have a kid. I have been watching porn regularly since 10 years and haven't been able to giveup on it yet. Nut I watch when I am alone inside a room or in a public computer cafe. My wife doesn't know this but maybe she doubts me...
  20. married and bisexual-failing at repressing sexuality

    Sex in Marriage
    i am 25 with two young kids, married 5 years to an amazing man. my husband ISNT ok with me having ANY contact with a woman as it would be "cheating". its been 5 years i havent touched a woman. and its getting too hard to repress my sexuality. i love my husband and want to be with him FOREVER. i...
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