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  1. I destroyed my beautiful family, I don't deserve to live any more

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have (or now I should say I've had) a wonderful family that anyone could have dreamt of. A wonderful wife of 25 years who has dedicated her entire life to raising her family, we have 3 great kids (1 teen & 2 young adults), a beautiful suburban home and very financially stable. My wife is a...
  2. Divorce over porn?

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife found downloaded porn on my phone yesterday, I did watch it, but didn't realize it got downloaded. She was deeply hurt, I was embarrassed when she told me. She went to work and I started to look in google for some advice (which landed me here), I found a lot of information that made me...
  3. He may have remarried, before our divorce

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I have a long backstory and it can all be found on my previous posts. Long story short, I was on Facebook the other day and my STBX girlfriend popped up. They live together and she blocked me nearly two years ago (I noticed when I went to block her since I saw her profile every time I logged...
  4. Feeling like you come second

    General Relationship Discussion
    Does anyone in my age group (25-30) who has kids feel like they always come last to your husband to his friends and hobbies? I think I just want to feel like I’m not alone because i don’t really have anyone to talk to about it and he makes me feel like some crazy controlling wife when all I want...
  5. New here, marriage concerns

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married for about 8 years and have been with my wife for 13 years going on 14 this year. I was 17 & she was 19 when we first started dating...throughout the years we have had our ups and downs...as I figure all marriages have.throughout the years she has lied, kept things from me, &...
  6. Together 11 years, married for 6 months - possible divorce

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everyone, I’ve always read stories on dating and marriage forums and I never thought I’d be posting about my own issues. I’m sort of at a loss for what I think is going on in our marriage and wanted to hear your opinions and thoughts. We’ve been together for a long time (I’m 29 and she’s...
  7. Healthy relationship

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    I am here to discuss some healthy and lifetime experiences of my marriage life.
  8. Would you want to know? Caught my ex cheating on her fiancee with...

    Coping with Infidelity
    ... the woman she cheated on me with (while she and I were dating). Also, please forgive me if I'm in the correct forum or not. I'm a woman and Kayla was my first same-sex experience in both getting physical with another woman and dating. I was struggling accept my sexuality, while she had...
  9. Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married

    The Social Spot
    https://cnsnews.com/news/article/barbara-hollingsworth/bachelor-nation-70-men-aged-20-34-are-not-married
  10. Marriage Dilemma

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi Everyone, I've been married for 5 years now, going on 6 yrs in November - no children. My husband has developed a deep interest in video games and has been working the night shift for 3 years. On weekends when he has off, he will spend his time playing video games and then he will sleep. I've...
  11. saving marriage

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    God Saved My Marriage If you are like many of us out here, and are at wits end. This is for you! This is a system that I have used with results myself. After 10 years of marriage, me and my husband started to fight. The people we were and the love we had seemed to all be gone……Until one day I...
  12. Be encouraged - book suggestion

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Free as a bird now… I wish I’d had TAM sooner. I spent many years questioning, really blaming myself for my unhappiness. It’s supposed to be within our control, right? Just want to reassure people on the fence, not that I encourage it, but life goes on after divorce. I read a book recently...
  13. Ahoy all!

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    I was going to with "Hey everyone" but i noticed that there's a billion posts with that intro already.. so i decided to be different. I put this in my bio, but i'll reiterate myself in the intro: My name is Alex, I live in Arizona and came across this forum when googling answers about my...
  14. Newbie - Marriage crisis or overthinking it?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I've never been on one of these sites before. But I felt because of what happened recently in my life, I needed a second opinion. We have always been very committed to our relationship. In fact, my wife and I just got back from our 20th anniversary trip in Europe and had a wonderful time...
  15. I'm in my twenties and this site has been so useful

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hi TAM. I have been monitoring this site for the best part of 6 months (maybe more) and I really appreciate this marriage forum. God bless the man that created it. Without it, I may have not been able to see the tell tale signs of the emotional affair that was brewing between my ex girlfriend...
  16. New: Marriage falling apart

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey everyone, I was just needing a little bit of advice about my marriage. My husband and I have been married only a year and 4 months now. At first things were good and then they turned sour and I've started realizing some things about him. He drinks too much, talks about doing drugs and...
  17. Hello All

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    New here, but certainly not new to marriage problems; mine or other people’s. My academic and professional background in psychology and counseling are pretty extensive, though I am here just to participate and, hopefully, add to the conversation. Presently, I work teaching adult learners. I...
  18. What would you do in this situation?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I need some help with a situation and want people's unbiased opinions. My husband and I are in a long distance marriage currently but visit each other fairly often, usually once a week. Something happened the other day and he is so furious with me that he is threatening divorce and I don't know...
  19. Please Help

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    I am struggling deeply and just need some sound advice. I've had a very rough year. I was struggling with care-taking for a very very sick immediate family member and went through a rough surgery for myself. My mental health suffered during this time- I began to struggle with crippling anxiety...
  20. Saving Men's Marriages

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hi, I'm Johan Tang. I'm new to Talk About Marriage, and am here to give the best advice for all the men out there in saving your marriage. I'll do my best to be helping out and giving valuable advice on any and every post I come across here from men who are in waning marriages and are trying...
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