Ok, here it is in a nut shell. I love my husband, we have been married for 16 years and have 3 children, I'm just not happy anymore. We are all messed up! My husband is in the Army and in the last 10 years has only been home for about 4 of them. Because of all the deployments, courses, and TDY...

Here is my story. My wife and I got together 23 years ago. At first things were awesome and the sex was wild. She did things I had never imagined. She was the first to say “I love you.” Six months in she broke up with me because I was controlling and could be a jerk. Guilty as charged...