Okay, wow. Don't know where to start. I just would like to preface this post by saying I will be mentioning reasons not excuses in this post, to try to give full perspective. I know what I have done is wrong, but I am hurt also. Readers digest: 12 year long relationship damaged from trauma...

Heres a quick backstory, I have been with my partner for years and married for almost a year now. I’ve been with 4 men in the past sexually and he has been with 2 women in the past. Apparently this poor man never did anything past missionary. Like he was so surprised when I gave him head. I’m...