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  1. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I need a place to share my story and feelings. I'm getting anxious waiting for my counseling appointment next week. Any insight into my situation is welcomed. I've been married for a year and am currently separated from my husband. Just two weeks after our honeymoon, my husband received...
  2. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello, Married 21 years, 4 kids 20,18,13 & 11. Back in 2014 I found out my wife was texting a man from her work. Not sure what made me start looking other than a gut feeling something wasn't right. She claims that it never got romantic and that she didn't think of him that way. I tried to...
  3. General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been together for 20 years and have three kids. Our relationship has been rocky at times, but we also get along as friends quite well. I haven’t worked in several years; I have physical disabilities that prevent that. Luckily he makes good money. Several years ago, I...
  4. Considering Divorce or Separation
    WHEN WE FIRST GOT MARRIED EVERYTHING WAS PERFECT. ( I NEVER MET HER PARENTS PRIOR). BEFORE SHE TOOK ME HOME SHE TOLD ME HER FAMILY DIDNT LIKE ME BECAUSE I’M BLACK (SHE’S HISPANIC). (STRIKE 1) IT ALL STARTED WHEN SHE TOOK ME HOME THE FIRST TIME HER MOTHER ONLY SPEAKS SPANISH, BUT I KEPT HEARING...
  5. Coping with Infidelity
    Ok i know threads like this are on here over and over but here we go: Wife was texting a male co-worker/ "friend" for over a year. Some days it was 10-20 messages some days its was 100's. Because her account is linked to our tablet i can see all messages. The conveesations were reltivatly...
  6. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Edited/Deleted: I'm not interested in being a member anymore. I'll seek help with professionals. I urge others to do the same.
  7. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi Everyone, I married a man from Lebanon (age 26) and I am 35 female. I did a lot and invested a lot to bring him here. When he came things were rocky with adjusting to cultural differences as well as personality differences. I had been concerned with some of his actions and kicked him out in...
  8. General Relationship Discussion
    I am a long-time lurker and used to be a semi-regular poster when I was married, but I have created a new account because I don't want my new posts associated with the old account. Because my how things have changed. I am now divorced and dating a new guy. He's 39. I'm 42. We have been together...
  9. General Relationship Discussion
    I am new to this forum and would like to share my story for some advice from other people going through a similar situation. I am 29 and met H when I was 24 on vacation and we dated blissfully long distance (2 hours away) for about a year before I moved to his city. Once moved, I realised...
  10. Relationships and Addiction
    So my husband and I have been married just coming up 14 years. I love him, he loves me, we have 3yo twins and for the most part everything id great apart from his fetish and his seeming inability to give it up..... I have tried everything I can think of and I am just at the end of my rope. My...
  11. General Relationship Discussion
    Hi there, my boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. I love him so much and I really do think he could be the one. I hope. Recently an old best friend of his just came back into his life. He insists they are just friends but it doesn't feel like that to me. For one, she is madly in...
  12. Coping with Infidelity
    Hey! I'm new to this site and this forum - thought I'd give it a go! About a week ago I noticed my husband was acting strangely. He was texting strange numbers without saving the contacts, and one night, he got out of bed really late, and I overheard him on the phone with someone taking about...
  13. Coping with Infidelity
    I would like to start out saying that my H and I had a perfect relationship but we did not. We had problems. My story is bit messed up. We have been together on and off for 18 years. I believe he is my one true love but we are both strong tempered. So long story short we got married 6 years...
  14. General Relationship Discussion
    I have been with my husband since we were 15, we are now 25 and have been married for 3 and a half years. He's always been kind, caring, and genuine with me. 6 years ago he joined the military which caused us to be separated (edit for clarity: still in a relationship just not physically...
  15. The Ladies' Lounge
    First of all, I have been married about five years. My husband's libido leaves much to be desired, and I am often having to "service" myself. He has told me that he is only able to make love about once a week, but it usually ends up being 10 days or even two weeks before we do. I spent most...
  16. Relationships and Addiction
    Hello. I guess I should give a bit of background of my marriage so maybe someone can give me a bias opinion. I have been married to my husband for almost 6 years. We were childhood sweethearts, when I was 18 we decided to date and 2 weeks later were married. He was in the military so he lived on...
  17. General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I were on vacation this past weekend and he kept responding to his work emails on Saturday night....which I had previously asked for no business calls or emails during our dinner. I guess his boss said something he found to be rude and they had had a couple of back and forth...
  18. General Relationship Discussion
    HI, I am very NEW to this. I am 28 years old. Have two beautiful children. I had a successful job for 5 years, but now am a stay at home mother/homemaker. I NEED advice, guidance, maybe a little help with some issues that are popping up in my marriage. First off, we have been married 6...
  19. Coping with Infidelity
    Thank you for looking. I am, again, caught in a terrible position that I put myself in. I am (what I thought was) happily married to the woman of my dreams and the best mother to our two children. I received a phone call from my ex girlfrienf of five+ years ago with whom I have been in text...
  20. Coping with Infidelity
    My fiance of three years has cheated on me twice. All of the below has happened while we were in a long distance relationship (appx 3k miles away). The first time we were dating and it was another man kissing her on her chest on two separate occasions of a two day period. She did not tell me...
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