loveless marriage

Am new and just saying hello! I’m not overly happy with my marriage but have two kids under 5. I feel a little bit trapped, in that I don’t love my wife anymore. I’ve joined here in the hope I can talk openly to other people

I'm a newly-wed. My husband and I got married less than a year after meeting without really knowing much about each other. It was a marriage set up by our parents to which we both wholly agreed to. I did and at least, that what my husband tells me. We're both in our 20s. We've now been married...

I don't seem to enjoy mu husband's company anymore and I don't really think he cares. - We can't hold a conversation without him making jokes about everything. Everything. I do have a sense of humor but sometimes I'd like to be able to talk about important subjects without him dodging it by...

But I am in love with another woman. I know not unique. Likely boring for this group But truly stressful for me! I am calm and uneventful in my life and at the top of my career in a stressful profession. She is Type A (is there AAA?) and at the top of her also stressful career. She travels...

My wife and I have been married for 4 years now. We have a 2y/o and one on the way. And we only have them because somehow by the grace of anything that is holy. I was allowed to have sex with her. I mean in the years that we've been married I can count how may times we've had sex on both hands...

Hello It may sound like a common question but is there a way to figure for sure if my husband is gay or bi? Going by some discussions ive read, i do see some signs. He has gay friends. We've been married only a few months and he is never really interested in sex. Ive never seen him check out...

Posted this elsewhere by mistake ,,, so here we go again. Twenty-five year marriage with 11 year old son (who is the best thing in my life). Wife has conceded that she does not love me. there has been ZERO intimate relations in over three years. About a year ago we discussed this and she...

We have been married 3 years, the first year for any normal couple would have been the end. There is no love or romance. After constantly hearing her bad mouth me to her friends might after night I was at my wits end. I hid away giving her all the space in the world. We hadent been close or...

My wife and I have known each other since we were kids, but never were romantically involved until we both had failed marriages when we were younger. From her 1st marriage she had 2 children. I have no biological children, but became involved with her children when they were still young...

OK... you've heard it before but here goes. I find this dilemma unbearable and quite incredible as well. Married 25 years. There has never been great passion or intimacy, but it was ok. There's been none whatsoever in a very long time. Due to the lack of any intimacy and affection, I did...

I online-cheated on my husband from 7/2007 until he found out in 4/2008. I contacted someone I've had contact with before I got married and have been emailing/chatting/sending inappropriate photo. I didn't feel anything for the person I cheated with but I wanted the attention because it made me...

My husband and I were deeply in love and he treated me like an absolute princess. Then, a month before our wedding, he 'saw' and 'heard' me in the shower with a 60-year old man at a place we were staying!!!! (I was 20!) Needless to say, it could not be more untrue, but no amount of persuasion of...

I've been friends with my newlywed husband of 11 years, of which, 8 of them were platonic. He and I got together 3 years ago, and he left me because of my family and not being over another woman who had cheated on him. I was devastated; I was so in love with him. He and I remained distant...

My husband and I have been together for 3 years, and lived together for 2 of those. We've only been married for the last year. We've only had problems for the last year. He just doesn't treat me well anymore. At worst he's angry and explosive about things that are not my fault; at best, he's...

I am 40 and my husband is 44, we have 3 children, the youngest being 6. For the past few years we started our own business which I do 80% of the work and he works part time outside of the home. The busier we get the more tired I get, on top of that I do have some blood pressure issues. I have...