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  1. Need to hear the truth

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey my first post and figured I’d reach out to who ever would just tell me what to do..I’ve read some Marriage forums about wife hating you, and honestly I don’t see that they pertain to me. Why? They all have some type of hope of coming back from That..I don’t and I am to Blaim! Here’s a run...
  2. Suffering from PTSD 30 years after discovering husbands affair!

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hi To Everyone who doesn't want to be here, I was a member many years ago and now have come back again. My husband had an affair during our 25 years of marriage, right before our 25th. Anniversary. I found out because the other women's husband mailed me a copy of the love letter/cards that he...
  3. I'm so lost.

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    The day I met my wife she was the most amazing person I've ever met, a smile that could light up a room, always laughing, life Of the party. She did have some problems like randomly crying and suicidal thoughts. But things have changed and I don't know what to do anymore. My wife has become so...
  4. Looking for Clarity

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi All, Im Back. Just find out that my wife was cheating on me with one of her male friend from work. You can read my story from below link. http://talkaboutmarriage.com/sex-marriage/196250-how-cope-no-love-care-intimacy-respect-sex.html So last week I find one year old pictures from her old...
  5. I told him everything. Please can someone help I need it more than ever

    Coping with Infidelity
    I posted before and now I need more help then ever Last night was crazy and I don’t know what to do or what’s going to happen now. I asked my parents if they could pick up the twins from school. So my husband and I could be alone. I was scared I wasn’t going to be able to tell him everything...
  6. where to start?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Don't know where to start this story. Married 25 years, and in hindsight, admittedly overly focused on responsibilities, raising children, to the detriment of "us". So, not a perfect marriage, but probably average or better. Slapped into reality two years ago by wife's forced admission of her...
  7. if money was tight

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    my husband and I got married 4 years ago at the time he lived with his parents. When we got married my parents allowed us to stay at there house to save up some money. He left me after 1 year and moved back to his parents house.( By the way he is 40 and im 27) We were separated for 3 years, on...
  8. To the ones who got a second chance

    Reconciliation
    For the people who got a second chance to make their marriage work..... THis is my story.... My husband and I been separated for 3 years and I took him back numerous times through the three yeARS because you said he changed and realized how he was wrong for leaving. But he never does change...
  9. i feel stuck in a hole

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been separated for 3 years now. He initiated the separation, he left me out of no where with our 1 year old and 6 year old. He took me to court a month later for visitation but never filed for divorce. He said many times he was filing the papers but never did. In the passed...
  10. What do you Men think...

    The Men's Clubhouse
    My husband and I have been separated for 3 years now. He initiated the separation, he left me out of no where with our 1 year old and 6 year old. He took me to court a month later for visitation but never filed for divorce. He said many times he was filing the papers but never did. In the passed...
  11. I'm living in a sexless marriage... at 22..

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hello everyone, As the title states, I am 22 years old (married to a 28 year old) and I am in a borderline sexless marriage after only 14 months of marriage. By borderline sexless I mean I'm lucky to have sex with my husband 2x/month. This started off as normal as it could have. We had sex...
  12. The EX is back in the picture.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello to all, I am new to this.. I have been looking online for some support in this confusing problem in my marriage that I am going though and I am so glad I ran into this site. I hope I can get some good advice from anyone who has possibly been though this or can relate to what I am going...
  13. Deciding if a seperation is the only option left

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Okay so I am seeking advice on my situation I have found myself in. A little history about my husband and I.. We have been together for 7 1/2 years and married for 3 1/2 of those years. We started dating in highschool when everything is fun, spontaneous, stress free, etc. We went through normal...
  14. I did him wrong, but what now?

    Coping with Infidelity
    It's a bit of a long story, but I'll try to narrow it down a tad.... I met him 4 years ago. I was a single mother, and he loved me anyway. He proposed, we found out we were pregnant (I was on birth control), got married, and everything seemed perfect. Six months after my youngest was born, I...
  15. Wife cheated with my kid

    Coping with Infidelity
    o.k. so the title is partialy misleading. sorry but your reading , right? I need help here, we all have sob stories,,...... here's mine. Honestly after 2 nights of no sleep and typing this on night 3 I just hope its comprehendable. I've been with my wife for 20 years, married 9. where to start...
  16. Why separate? I don't understand. Help!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My fiance and I have been together for 5 1/2 years. We've lived together since 3 months after we met. Everything seemed good on my end and I was very happy until we moved back to her home town. 2 months later she tells me that 1. She loves me. 2. She still wants to date me and be a couple. 3...
  17. After 3 years, I'm still not over him.

    Coping with Infidelity
    First of all I’ll start by saying this is going to be relatively long, but after 3 years, I just don’t know what else to do, where else to turn. I'll admit I am the other woman, and I know that won't win me any friends on here. But I am hoping to hear from anyone who may have been in a simlar...
  18. I am lost and she says i should know whats wrong

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi. I am new to the site and need advice on my marriage. I work out of state on a drill rig. I am gone a month and home for a month. I have been working offshore and out of state since we met. We got married two years ago and have a little boy now who is turning one year old next month. Our...
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