lost and confused

I'll try to keep this short, hopefully I'm in the right spot and asking the right thing. I'll be 30 next month, married 8 years in June with a total of 11 years together and we have one 7 year old together. My entire relationship had been pretty beautiful up until about year 3 of marriage. We...

Coming up on 8 years of marriage and I'm not sure I can suffer another year let alone a lifetime. We were married only 11 months into what was already a challenging relationship. We married quickly because he was (is) in the military and was being transferred. When we were dating there were...

Hey my first post and figured I’d reach out to who ever would just tell me what to do..I’ve read some Marriage forums about wife hating you, and honestly I don’t see that they pertain to me. Why? They all have some type of hope of coming back from That..I don’t and I am to Blaim! Here’s a run...

Hi To Everyone who doesn't want to be here, I was a member many years ago and now have come back again. My husband had an affair during our 25 years of marriage, right before our 25th. Anniversary. I found out because the other women's husband mailed me a copy of the love letter/cards that he...

The day I met my wife she was the most amazing person I've ever met, a smile that could light up a room, always laughing, life Of the party. She did have some problems like randomly crying and suicidal thoughts. But things have changed and I don't know what to do anymore. My wife has become so...

Hi All, Im Back. Just find out that my wife was cheating on me with one of her male friend from work. You can read my story from below link. http://talkaboutmarriage.com/sex-marriage/196250-how-cope-no-love-care-intimacy-respect-sex.html So last week I find one year old pictures from her old...

I posted before and now I need more help then ever Last night was crazy and I don’t know what to do or what’s going to happen now. I asked my parents if they could pick up the twins from school. So my husband and I could be alone. I was scared I wasn’t going to be able to tell him everything...

Don't know where to start this story. Married 25 years, and in hindsight, admittedly overly focused on responsibilities, raising children, to the detriment of "us". So, not a perfect marriage, but probably average or better. Slapped into reality two years ago by wife's forced admission of her...

my husband and I got married 4 years ago at the time he lived with his parents. When we got married my parents allowed us to stay at there house to save up some money. He left me after 1 year and moved back to his parents house.( By the way he is 40 and im 27) We were separated for 3 years, on...

For the people who got a second chance to make their marriage work..... THis is my story.... My husband and I been separated for 3 years and I took him back numerous times through the three yeARS because you said he changed and realized how he was wrong for leaving. But he never does change...

My husband and I have been separated for 3 years now. He initiated the separation, he left me out of no where with our 1 year old and 6 year old. He took me to court a month later for visitation but never filed for divorce. He said many times he was filing the papers but never did. In the passed...

My husband and I have been separated for 3 years now. He initiated the separation, he left me out of no where with our 1 year old and 6 year old. He took me to court a month later for visitation but never filed for divorce. He said many times he was filing the papers but never did. In the passed...

Hello everyone, As the title states, I am 22 years old (married to a 28 year old) and I am in a borderline sexless marriage after only 14 months of marriage. By borderline sexless I mean I'm lucky to have sex with my husband 2x/month. This started off as normal as it could have. We had sex...

Hello to all, I am new to this.. I have been looking online for some support in this confusing problem in my marriage that I am going though and I am so glad I ran into this site. I hope I can get some good advice from anyone who has possibly been though this or can relate to what I am going...

Okay so I am seeking advice on my situation I have found myself in. A little history about my husband and I.. We have been together for 7 1/2 years and married for 3 1/2 of those years. We started dating in highschool when everything is fun, spontaneous, stress free, etc. We went through normal...

It's a bit of a long story, but I'll try to narrow it down a tad.... I met him 4 years ago. I was a single mother, and he loved me anyway. He proposed, we found out we were pregnant (I was on birth control), got married, and everything seemed perfect. Six months after my youngest was born, I...

o.k. so the title is partialy misleading. sorry but your reading , right? I need help here, we all have sob stories,,...... here's mine. Honestly after 2 nights of no sleep and typing this on night 3 I just hope its comprehendable. I've been with my wife for 20 years, married 9. where to start...

My fiance and I have been together for 5 1/2 years. We've lived together since 3 months after we met. Everything seemed good on my end and I was very happy until we moved back to her home town. 2 months later she tells me that 1. She loves me. 2. She still wants to date me and be a couple. 3...

First of all I’ll start by saying this is going to be relatively long, but after 3 years, I just don’t know what else to do, where else to turn. I'll admit I am the other woman, and I know that won't win me any friends on here. But I am hoping to hear from anyone who may have been in a simlar...

Hi. I am new to the site and need advice on my marriage. I work out of state on a drill rig. I am gone a month and home for a month. I have been working offshore and out of state since we met. We got married two years ago and have a little boy now who is turning one year old next month. Our...