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  1. Dealing with Grief and Loss
    I was with the love of my life. Some trials and tribulations happened connected to Childhood trauma. I begged for people to be with me as I worked through this because I was always there for everyone else but no one would help. My life was falling apart and everyone just turned the other way. I...
  2. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi Everyone. First post on the forums because I'm at a loss with my situation. Figuring people on these boards have heard stories similar to mine and might have some advice. My wife (29 and I'm 34) of 7 years, 11 years together, told me in August that she wanted a divorce. Three days later she...
  3. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    In 2014 I got engaged and married my long time sweetheart. We were blissful and happy. Like the kind of mushy stuff everyone envies and says makes them sick, but really they are just jealous of the happiness they perceive. While we were engaged he lost his job, started drinking too much, but...
  4. Life After Divorce
    What part of you (before the divorce) do you miss? For me, it is the ability to love without doubt. All of my relationships now have a finality or temporary quality about them that I was never conscious of before. I have become cautious in love. That may be good or bad, but I miss (sort...
  5. Coping with Infidelity
    I was sleeping in my own bed tonight as I have been for a few weeks. I couldn't sleep so I happened upon a movie called, "The Bells of Saint Mary" staring Bing Crosby and Ingram Burg man. I'm sure that a lot of you on here might remember the movie. It's about a Catholic School, Children & what...
  6. General Relationship Discussion
    Hi folks, I don't normally like posting on forum boards for stuff like this, as I feel that if I have major issues like these should be discussed with a therapist, but my current insurance doesn't cover marriage counseling. Basically, I noticed in June/July that my wife had been becoming...
  7. Coping with Infidelity
    First I want to say this situation is very much my fault. Not solely my fault of course, but still something I had a heavy hand in. Right now I am in a relationship that has been successful through hardship. However in the past few months I made the mistake of letting my insecurities push my...
  8. General Relationship Discussion
    We have been married for 7 years. I first noticed she would not say I love you too about 3 weeks ago.We have been having financial problems that she blames completely on me.I can honestly say a lot of it is my fault.I should have hired some one out side the family instead letting her help.I just...
  9. The Men's Clubhouse
    Hi guys. My name is Trent and I live in Iowa and am just out of high school. My girlfriend, Danielle, and I have been together for a really long time--she is in a music group and we've spent years together, her lovely vocals and soothing ukulele chords putting me to sleep most nights. We...
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