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  1. What would you do in this situation?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I need some help with a situation and want people's unbiased opinions. My husband and I are in a long distance marriage currently but visit each other fairly often, usually once a week. Something happened the other day and he is so furious with me that he is threatening divorce and I don't know...
  2. Not happy with wife, I may be selfish, i don't know...

    General Relationship Discussion
    Started in a long distance relationship since then became married, we moved together after marriage. Things never seems as if she wants to make the house a home with me nor does she seem to trust me nor acknowledges things I've done for the relationship although I feel I've been overly...
  3. Would you give this woman another chance?

    The Men's Clubhouse
    I would love to know how you would see my situation with my ex. I feel so torn. Here's what happened: 1. We had a very rough long distance marriage (me in Vancouver, and her in San Jose) that lasted 2 years before I ended it with her. The main problem was that she continually, angrily...
  4. Long distance relationship help needed. What's going through her mind?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I warn you, this is gonna be a long post. Hello everyone, I'm a new user just seeking for help. I'm a 24 yo male from Italy and in the last year, I have been trying to reconnect with an American girl I really like. We have known each other for 7 years and at some point we were in a long distant...
  5. Reverse the 180?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Should I initiate contact during the separation? My wife have been together for nine years and married for three of those. We recently separated. The context There is a never ending cycle of blame so it is difficult for me to pinpoint the starting point. In general, for me, it was more about...
  6. Is it all worth it?-Married but living in different continents

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    My hubby and I got married last year, after fighting it hard with family and going thru all the pain and rejections, when family finally agreed despite of living at two different continents, we decided to get married and figure relocation afterwards. I am very career oriented woman, I like my...
  7. Long Distance The one

    General Relationship Discussion
    So Ive been in a fair amount relationships. My longest being 3years, Ive had 2 one night stands with people who wanted to date me, I've had some flings. Now after my previous relationship (A little over a year), I decided it was time for a change. I decided that if I do want to be in a long term...
  8. Long Distance The one

    General Relationship Discussion
    So Ive been in a fair amount relationships. My longest being 3years, Ive had 2 one night stands with people who wanted to date me, I've had some flings. Now after my previous relationship (A little over a year), I decided it was time for a change. I decided that if I do want to be in a long term...
  9. How to deal with lies in a long distance relationship

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I am in a distance relationship with my husband at the moment. He is in NY and I am in Spain. I have lost trust in him due to many things that have happened in the past (he is a recovering alcoholic). The point is before leaving we made clear some bounderies so that we don't hurt each...
  10. How would you handle this? Married 1 year, and your wife won't move to your city

    The Men's Clubhouse
    I'd love to get your input on this - particularly (but not necessarily exclusively) from guys. OK, here goes - my first time posting. 1. My wife and I met in grad school in Vancouver. We moved in together during school. A year after graduating, she moved back to her home town, San Jose, to...
  11. I guess that I need advice...

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Now this is probably a stupid thing to say, I realise this but I don't know what to do. I just don't know what to do really. I went out of town on work and have been gone for 3 months now. My boyfriend of 3 years is still at home, he didn't come with me. So it was hard in the beginning, being...
  12. Long-distance parenting

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    Hello all. I will try to keep this short and concise. My ex-wife and I are recently divorced. We have a 4-year old son. She recently was offered a lateral move within her company for more pay in the Bay Area, California (I am in Oregon, in the Portland area). Now, for reasons which my ex-wife...
  13. a rock and a hard place?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi all, This is a new spot for me to be in. I have been with my wife for 10 years - married 4 of them. We have been living apart now for about 8 months for work and could use some advice or, at the very least, the opportunity to put some of my thoughts in print. When we first moved apart...
  14. Holding onto false hope or still a chance?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband of 12-years and I have been in a long-distance relationship since August 2011 (we live 2500 miles apart). We do not have any children. Starting in October 2011 things started to go downhill very quickly. When he came home for Christmas my husband told me he really enjoyed his new...
  15. Best plan for reconciliation

    Reconciliation
    My husband of 12-years and I have been in a long-distance relationship since August 2011 (we live 2500 miles apart). We do not have any children (although I had wanted to start having a family within the next few years). Starting in October 2011 things started to go downhill very quickly...
  16. Separated and a bit lost...

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone, Just wanted to add my own experience here and would be grateful of any advice or thoughts you have. I married my spouse almost 2 years ago - prior to which we had dated for nearly 2 years. We met whilst my spouse was working overseas for several years, near my hometown. Then when...
  17. 8 years of Relationship and now He wants breakup

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have had several ups and downs. Mostly, because of him. He would run away but then come back after 6 months or so. I wouldn't stop him from going away, and would always accept him back gladly. Since the past one year I was noticing stability in Him...
  18. Newly married; completely lost

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am beginning to think that I am literally losing my mind. I've been married (second marriage) for only a couple of months to someone I've known for barely longer than a year. I met him at a previous job, not long after breaking off an intense long-term relationship. I had no interest in a new...
  19. Long Distance Marriage Crisis

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been with my wife 3 years and 3 months and we have been married for 1 year and 1 month. In February of 2011 she moved to Chicago to live with her mom and grandpa as they had promised her a sweet government job (her grandfather is a guy that knows people and supposedly can make stuff...
  20. Heartache at a Distance

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi Everyone, I am new here, but find myself in a tough situation which doesn't seem to be getting any better. To be honest, I'm just so tired of crying and feeling lost and confused, and I know I am becoming a burden on my friends and family who are all so wonderful in listening to my heartache...
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