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  1. Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I'm here to seek some impartial advice. I'm married 25 years and the one relatively constant source of angst in my marriage over the last ~15 years is that we have mismatched libidos. We've been to counselling on that topic, but it was a very uncomfortable topic. My wife has the lower...
  2. General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for 7 years next month and we're still having issues with his porn use. He goes through these times when he will practically stop having sex and coming to me all together and instead watches porn. Usually after I talk to him about how it bothers me things will...
  3. The Ladies' Lounge
    This is huge for me. I never thought I would actually post in a forum for help about this but I don't know what else to do. I'm very sad and hurt and I feel completely lonely in my marriage. Here's some background... Married 12 years as of this past May. 3 children who I dearly love, great life...
  4. General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I met in college, have been together for 9 years, married for 2, and have no children yet. I absolutely adore him...if he's not my soulmate, he's as close to being "the one" as I'll ever find. He's everything I could want in a man: sweet, sensitive, intelligent, funny, and...
  5. General Relationship Discussion
    My H works M-F and goes out with his friends on weekends, they go "dirt roading" which is driving around and drinking. and when I say he works M-F, he stays where he works because it is a 2 hr. drive from where we live and we just don't have the gas money for him to drive back and forth...
  6. General Relationship Discussion
    OK, just wanted to say thanks for your time, whoever will reply. I'll try to be short and sweet. My partner and I are so different, it worries me. I can't really talk about this to anyone else, because 1. i don't have many people here and 2. those whom i do have, is not the best choice for this...
  7. Sex in Marriage
    Sorry, i tried to make this short, but i had to vent a little too. thanks for reading, and hopefully providing an idea or 2! hi all, i'm 25, so is my husband. married for almost 4 years now, and our sex life has dwindled to the occasional 'boob scoop' and the routine kiss before we leave for...
  8. General Relationship Discussion
    Hi everyone, Apologies if you've heard this all before, but this is new to me. Fries my brain and scares me ****less! I have been in my first long term relationship for over 6 years now, he was my "first" sexual partner as well as my first long term relationship. He is 5 years older; i am...
  9. Considering Divorce or Separation
    OK so im new and not sure what this will do for me but hopefully help. ive been with my husband for 3 years and at the beginning as always i felt so loved and cared for. we don't have kids together but each have one of our own. his doesn't live with us. as time went on i began to see that he...
  10. Life After Divorce
    Ok, so my wife and I are getting a divorce and have been separated for 5 months now. She's the one that wants the divorce, but I understand it's for the best. Please see previous threads of mine to get the whole story. But, this isn't my problem. What I'm confused about is why I keep falling...
  11. General Relationship Discussion
    My H and I have been married for 11 years, together for 13. I am 46 and he is 39. The beginning years were mostly perfect. Love, affection, healthy sex life, attention etc. At the 7 yr. itch mark it happened, a brief "emotional affair" with his 20 yr. old secretary and I was prepared to end...
  12. General Relationship Discussion
    My marriage is empty at best. I spend all of my time at work or taking care of my child. My husband is a great dad, when I'm not around to do the work. He often helps around the house, too, so I know it's better than for many others. But he doesn't appreciate anything I do and just doesn't care...
  13. General Relationship Discussion
    ok.. ther is alot more to this story but il give the most recent problem...... Im 21..and ever since i was 16 i have been kissing a boy. but its just he is extremely shy and it seems to be just on his terms wenever we meet up. i might text message him and not get anything back. in front of...
  14. General Relationship Discussion
    I have been dating a man for four years now. During that time, it has been a struggle for me to feel satisfied with the amount of time and attention he's giving to me. When we have lived near to each other, the time he gave to me was limited due to both or our work/school schedules. I'd look...
  15. Sex in Marriage
    OK, so I know there are a LOT of threads everywhere on the Web about wives losing sex drive, etc....It seems common around 40, especially. My situation isn't terribly different, but it is in a way. To explain a little, my wife and I have been married for 20 years, 5 kids, with the youngest...
  16. Considering Divorce or Separation
    After 4 and a half years of marriage I realize that I married for convenience. We were only together for 5 months before we were engaged and married by the time we reached a year together. He had been through a horrible divorce about 2 years prior and I had been through a stream of bad...
  17. General Relationship Discussion
    My husband has played online computer games, for as long as I have known him, of course you never know how bad it is until you live with them. Warcraft is his drug of choice. I have to admit, it's alittle better since he joined the Army, since he goes to bed by midnight, instead of 3-5am. We...
  18. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been with my husband for two and a half years (lived together) and have been married a month. Yeah. I know. I made the mistake of losing my virginity to my now husband (who was not even close to a virgin) when I didn't want to. According to the Old Testament, since I slept with him, we...
  19. The Ladies' Lounge
    This is my first post, and I'm a little scared to honestly even write this down. My husband moved me from a place where I have lived for the passed 8 years, back to his home town. So naturally I don't know anybody, and I'm going to be hanging out with him and his friends. I love my husband...
  20. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Happy Anniversary Today is my 13th wedding anniversary. I have not bought a gift or a card for my spouse as I do not feel like celebrating. About 2 years ago I found out my husband had rung up over 20K in credit card debt. I never did find out exactly where all the money went except his...
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