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  1. Why am I not enough?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My Husband and I have been together over 25 years. Just before 18 years together we split for 6 months, but we’re able to work out our relationship. In June of 2019 we got married. In Feb 2020 I left my job and our relationship almost immediately went South. All of this happening during...
  2. What is happening?

    General Relationship Discussion
    At the age of 18, I believed I was fortunate to have a long life with my love. We dated and married each other when we were 23. The first few years seemed normal and I abided by "happy wife...happy life." It wasn't until my husband told me that I was so controlling and always telling him what to...
  3. Failing Relationship - need advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    Let me start by saying my fiancé and I have been together for six years. We met through and online dating site. I was six months out of a two year relationship and was ready to move on with my one year old son in tow. When we met, it was amazing. He reminded me what it was like to have someone...
  4. Feeling alone and looking for support, guidance, advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    I haven't been on this forum in over 2 years, but I returned today out of desperation. H and I are very much in love but due to a series of very stressful outside factors (court battle(s) with H's ex, differences of opinion in child rearing, and dealing with parental alienation issues with my...
  5. How do I get over it?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Last year I had cancer, I think my husband was in denial.. I really don't think my husband could deal with the fact that i was really sick..But why is this? I'm in remission and still being taken to every appointment by my parents..Im slightly annoyed.. I understand he hates crowds..or has an...
  6. Lost?

    General Relationship Discussion
    31 years old. Been married for a little over a year and we have been together over 12 years. 38/m 31/f. Just trying to give a little bit of backround. Last year I lost one of the most cherished, important people in my life. This man was the only father i ever knew and I watched...
  7. ruinex

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Ruined is the title....I am sure some will read this and be able to somewhat relate but I hope that none of you have done or will do the same. The full story is much too long so this will be just the main essentials. I married and was absolutley in love with my wife, who was pregnant at the...
  8. Recently Separated

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi. I have been separated from my husband of 21 years for 4 days. We were together 6 years prior to marriage and have three great kids. Our relationship has always been one of mutual respect, love and understanding. However, I was diagnosed with cancer (advanced stage) 2.5 years ago. Everything...
  9. My husband loves feet, I feel left out...

    Sex in Marriage
    Sounds kinda weird but my Husband and I have been together for over 7 years, married for over 2 years. (one toddler and one on the way) Since the beginning I knew he had a thing for feet. When I am tired or touched out I like being able to give him my feet and 'calm him down'. We have always had...
  10. My TOO BIG friend is lonely. Need advice.

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hello, Ladies. I have a friend who is also a client of mine professionally. He has a rather unique problem that is seriously impacting his happiness, and I thought I would try to vett him some ideas. He is a very nice person, never married, no kids. His problem is that his penis is about 12...
  11. Married but alone and unappreciated.

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been married for 19 years, 4 children ages; 23, 18, 17, and 9. February 23, 2015 I will complete my BA Health Administration degree. I am currently on disability because I recently had knee surgery and am going through Physical Therapy (PT). I am employed with a rehabilitation center for...
  12. Help!! At my witts end but can't leave.....

    Coping with Infidelity
    Where to start...... Before we married i found out my husband was into some shall we say kinky bedroom activities. We played around and i tried everything we was into. I thought things were great but then i found out he had visited a professional dominatrix (no sex but it is still sexual so i...
  13. Single,virgin and loosing hope

    General Relationship Discussion
    My name is Joseph and this is My story I am 27 years old, a recent medical graduate from India.I have been single for my entire life,not because of how i look,but because i am humourous and i prefer to make everyone around me smile and happy even though i am sad sometimes.Most girls think i am...
  14. Affection and Intimacy Starved

    General Relationship Discussion
    I meet my now husband when we were both 17. He was my first everything. He used to be very romantic and affectionate at first. We got married after going out for 5 years. He started changing even before we got married. He treats me like a friend rather than his wife. A lot of times people think...
  15. Nothing makes sense anymore..need advice

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Im new here, desperate too. I want to leave my marriage of 18 years 2 kids, now teens. My husband works all the time, travels all the time and when hes home hes either working or doing something else that doesnt involve us. Its like were living in the same house but not together. It feels like...
  16. My Husband Doesn't Do Anything With Me

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am running my first 5K tomorrow and I am very excited! I just had a baby. She is 6 months old now. I love her so much and was hoping that both her and my husband would be there at the finish line when its over. My husband refuses to go. He is a Type 1 diabetic and says that walking around...
  17. I'm screaming silently..."I can't take this!"

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am 33 years old and have been married for 7 years, together for 15. I love my husband but I sure don't like him. We have two beautiful kids and we currently coexist in our house as roommates. We fight constantly about everything. From finances which are dismal to how we raise our kids. Sex is...
  18. Wife doesnt understand and i dont know what to do

    General Relationship Discussion
    As of the end of March this year I have been clean and sober 9 years. While that's great and im proud of it, one issue came with that I still cannot resolve. All of my old "running" friends are gone and I haven't had any success in finding new friends. The only time my wife and I have apart are...
  19. Feeling really hurt by wife's comments

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I'm here to seek some impartial advice. I'm married 25 years and the one relatively constant source of angst in my marriage over the last ~15 years is that we have mismatched libidos. We've been to counselling on that topic, but it was a very uncomfortable topic. My wife has the lower...
  20. I don't know what else to do?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for 7 years next month and we're still having issues with his porn use. He goes through these times when he will practically stop having sex and coming to me all together and instead watches porn. Usually after I talk to him about how it bothers me things will...
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